I Forgave Her

My wife and I grew up together. Same neighborhood, same church, and same bus ride, and same school. Her family was much better off than mine. She took music seriously I played sports, I even pitched through college. We became official during high school. And really was happy with each other almost inseparable. We were totally into each other. Her parents wanted her to do better than me or at least date others so get exsperiences in life. Her parents paid for her to school in France a semester. She didn’t want to go but felt this would really help her career. We planned to call every Thursday night the 3 months she was away (before cell phones). This was expensive and my parents helped. We hope this exsperience would make us stronger. Both of us religious and conservative in personality.
This is when things turned for the worse. The third week away during our call she said we needed to break up. She explained she was doing things I wouldn’t accept. Going nude at the beaches, started drinking wine, dancing with friends, and etc. She had too much respect for me to do this while we were a couple. She said she loved and respected me to much to not break up while doing things I wouldn’t accept. I was crushed and knew this didn’t seem like the person I knew for years. I did call the next Thursday and she was unlike herself. After this she wouldn’t answer the weekly call so I accepted my fate.
Friends and family helped me accept so I gave up my relationship with her. She returned home and came to my parents home many times and asked for me to contact her which I didn’t. One day after my practice she had come to my college and was waiting at my dorm. I needed closer so in talked with her. She told me she didn’t have sex with anyone while we were a couple but after breakup she was sexually active with other guys. She said she was miserable over there and tried to mix in with her group. She did many things she wasn’t proud of and can only ask for forgiveness from God and me. She then really blew my mind. She told me she was pregnant. I walked away at that time. Two days later she came again and begged to talk again. I reluctantly did. She told me she didn’t know who the father was. She said she would take the rest of her life proving to me we were meant to be together. I told her to go back to France and marry the father. She would show up weekly but I would walk past her. Every game I was the starting picther she was in the stands wherever we played. She had a daughter and all went well. When she was able she started following me again so I started talking with her again. She said I would be her daughters only father and we would have more children. Seeing this darling baby girl I knew they needed me.
I finally told her if we had a chance she had to be honest and share what she went through for me to understand. She walked to her car and got a notebook and gave it to me. She warned it was brutal for me to read this but she wanted me to know. She started how her parents wanted us to break up for years. She broke up with me before having sex with others. She estimated she had done 32 bj on men. Had had protected sex with 7 different men. She said she was drunk days in a row. She got kicked out of the class in France. Got a curable STD. The last two weeks in France she used was high and alcohol and her and her hangouts participated in non protected sex groups. She admitted doing most anything during this time. Someone from school called her parents so her dad came and got her. He found her naked in a group with a guy on each end of her. He couldn’t even find her clothes to dress her so he gave her his overcoat. He brought her back home and had her medically checked and found the STD and the pregnancy.
Her parents agreed to help her try to get back with me. After gradually winning my heart back I agreed to be a couple again. The next baseball season my wife and daughter never missed a game I was starting picther. We agreed to marry. I never really forgave her parents and refused a marriage with them attending so we went before a judge.
My wife has spent our married life dedicated to our family. Empty nest now going well. I look at her while hanging out thinking what her well shaped butt went through during her France days. I have pulled some of her sex events out of her but this always depresses her. So I can’t get details I want to get. I see now me made it through it all.