personally for me it is Metallica.
Try making love to church music.
Mr. Xcitement (I think that's the spelling) by They Might Be Giants. It's got a terrific beat for pounding the pork to a lady. My wife says she personally hates the song (at least the lyrics), but more than once I've found her humping her pillow to the songs' beat.
I'm a dude and for me the best love-making music is Bon Jovi. Nothing gets me hotter than hearing Bon Jovi go at it. I mean I'm ready to screw anything! I put on "Livin' On A Prayer," for example, and after a few bars, I'm already wet with pre-cum!
Get real!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you need music your with the wrong partner.