My Husbands ED

My husband of 34 years now has ED. He can't get hard at all anymore. I'm perfectly willing to go without sex or to give him oral, which can still make him cum . . . sometimes! He gets very frustrated with not being able to perform. He has told me to get sex from other men, but honestly I don't need it and wouldn't even know how to go about finding someone else. I asked him if there was anything I could do and would do anything. He finally admitted that he wanted to try going back to having sex with men. I knew he did it from about 17 till he met me, and I didn't really think about it much. I guess I always figured he was the active one in those relationships. Turns out he was mostly the "receiver".

He misses sex, and takes what I can give him, when he can perform, but he wanted to go with a man and be the one on the bottom. He wanted the man to have sex and cum inside him. I agreed, and he has been doing it several times a week now. I am glad he's happy, and getting sex in whatever way he wants it. He will still lick me and I suck on him too.

I'm not sure if my not caring, and him getting sexed by men means anything about the two of us or not. He enjoys himself though and is actually more attentive to me than before.