Had sex with my gf last night, it was her first time. She was way into it last night and we did it a couple of times. After, she said that she was a little sore, but she wasn't sorry.

This morning I woke up (as usual) with a hard-on, so I had another go. She didn't say stop, but she obviously wasn't into it like she was last night. Right after I came in her she pushed me off, turned her back to me, and started to cry.

I don't get it. We were drinking a little and smoking some before we did it last night, but neither of us were seriously messed up, just a little buzzed. Not like I took advantage, she was into it.

And if she didn't want to do it this morning, all she had to do was say something. I would have stopped.

She won't talk to me about it and she's still being weird. Did I do something wrong?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 16, 2007 at 11:51 PM

Maybe, the first time was magical to her. But the next morning when you had sex, she may have thought you were using her like a whore.

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by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2007 at 6:42 AM

All females are fickle to the point that no male will ever understand. I am retired musician and after 30 years on the road have had more sex with more women than most guys can only dream of and I still cannot understand a woman's logic.
Lesson number 1.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2007 at 10:02 AM

Maybe you forgot to preheat the oven before sticking in the meat

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jul 17, 2007 at 6:04 PM

If woman came in heat like animales do, then they wouldn't complain when they had sex.

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by Anonymous on Jul 20, 2007 at 12:42 AM

She has to come to terms with her sexuality.That's part of "growing up".You can expect her to get a bit emotional about it all.In fact,you should expect her to have inconsistant emotions, especially in her early explorations of sex.Women are just wired a little differently that men.Try to be supportive of her as a person,and try to present sex as a beautiful thing, something that is appropriate to explore.

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by Anonymous on Jul 22, 2007 at 9:02 PM

I think if you really love her you should talk to her and ask her how she feels. Let her know that sex isn't only about you "Getting off" but its also about what she wants and needs. Communication is the key, before during and after sex. Especially during. Once the woman feels that you love her and respect her and that it dosen't go away during the sex act, she will usually get as wild as she's comfortable with.

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by Anonymous on Jul 31, 2007 at 10:18 PM

May it was "buyer's remorse", you know, like she may have had no regrets at first, later she did.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 19, 2008 at 4:34 PM

maybe she was upset about losing her virginity.....

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