I'm One Of Those Girls Who Needs A Real Man In Her Life

I'm 25 in an intimate relationship with a much older man. He's my first. As a teen, college student, I just could not get interested with males in my circle. To me, they were so immature. I needed a man who knew how to finish raising me. A man who cared about me, a man who could say 'when you grow up' or 'don't be immature' and my feelings wouldn't get hurt. 25 years old is not a 'man'.

Where do you meet a real man? I met my man at work. The old secretary boss thing. He needs a vibrant young woman to make his day, I need a serious mature secure man to lead the way. I can't be expected to follow a so called man who doesn't know where he's headed.