Soap and water do wonders for the outside of things, but it won't clean the nasty stuff thats inside. But welcome to the world of GAY, and AIDS.
As for being gay for real, I think you actually have to be born that way (I can already hear the outcry of the more conservative readers). That being the case, have you ever previously had past same sex atractions?
Pretty ignorant there!
First, lot's of straight persons have H.I.V., so being homosexual is not the only risk factor.
Second, he said he sucked some guy off.
It's virtually impossible to get H.I.V. that way.
If it were the whole gay world would be dead by now.
The guy's dealing with a serious identity crisis, so why dump that mean bullshit on him as well?
Many usually straight men have occasional same sex desires.
The problem is that sexuality just for gratification is too habit forming to dabble in.
I don't know why he went to a 'switch party' - whatever that is - in the first place if he wasn't looking to take a walk on the wild side, but there's no use crying over spilled milk.
The fact is oral sex IS a way of transmitting std's including HIV/AIDS not just in men but also in women. Many people have sores in their mouths (from diabetes, herpes, or anything else) or even cuts from brushing their teeth! To call someone ignorant when you do not know the facts is infact being ignorant yourself.
Any sex that is not "safe" sex is a risky behavior. I am not bashing gay sex in any way, just stating the facts that if you choose to have sex of any kind you should use a condom or dental dam. Also, there are also other diseases you can catch from touch...Did you know rare as it may be, that you can catch genital warts from mutual masterbation! And warts as well as many other things can remain dormant in your sysytem with no symptoms!!!! HPV (Human Papaloma Virus, which is the virus that causes genital warts) can be completely silent (in both men and women) and cause infertility and even cervical cancer in women! So whom ever you are sleeping with be carefull and use protection it may save not only your life but those you love too!
Have you thought of the same sex before?
Faggots.
who says you have to chose between being gay or straight? Its perfectly natural to be one or the other, or even both. You dont need to make a decision and you dont have to worry about what is "right", just go with what feels good. If you like both, guys, or women, then more power to ya!