What An Asshole!

For 4 or 5 years during our marriage my husband has been practically pleading with me to have a 3some with another man and him. My answer was always the same…NO! I’ve known too many couples who eventually ruined their lives by swinging or having an open marriage, I was not about to do it. It didn’t stop him from trying and coaxing and pressuring me to do it. Over time, I guess I simply got tired of him constantly bringing it up, especially during sex. I thought about it many negatives vs the only positive I could think of, making him happy and getting him to shut up, and after having him pretending that someone was fucking me from behind while I gave him head, I decided I’d had enough.

I told him I’d consider it if I got to pick the other guy. He agreed and asked me who I wanted it to be but I said I needed to think about it. But once I decided, that’s who it had to be or it would be no one. If they refused, it would be no one. He agreed but insisted that it couldn’t be someone totally unattainable like a movie star or someone famous. It had to either be someone we knew, or a stranger in a club or something like that. I agreed and he let it drop for a couple of days, but then wanted to know if I’d decided. I had thought about nothing else, trying to choose between someone I actually found attractive, and someone so shocking to him that he’d flat refuse and drop it. I decided on the latter.

After a week of thinking it through, I made my decision. That night, during sex, I told him I had picked someone. He asked me who and after teasing him a bit, I told him “Your brother, Carl.” He looked at me with a shocked look on his face because he knew I didn’t really like Carl. But, to my surprise, he eagerly agreed saying Carl had talked about wanting to fuck me since we got married. I now regretted my choice because Carl is 12 years older than me, he’s not fat, but isn’t in the shape I prefer, and he’s just not exactly good looking. But I had set the rules and now I had no choice other than to hope either Carl or my husband would back out.

The night came a couple of weeks later and Carl came over and we all had some drinks, I had several because that was the only way I knew I could get through it. Eventually, we moved into the bedroom and I undressed and climbed in the bed, my husband and Carl lay down on either side of me. My husband kept looking at Carl and asked him what he thought of my body, he was rubbing my breasts and went on and on about how sexy I was. He leaned over to kiss me but I turned and asked “Are you SURE you want to do this?” My husband didn’t hesitate before saying “absolutely!”

Carl then kissed me and slid his hands to my pussy and began playing with it. While I didn’t like kissing him, I have to admit it felt good. My husband was sucking on my breasts and then turned my face so he could kiss me. When he did, Carl slid down and began to go down on me. I was surprised by how turned on I was getting and it didn’t take long for me to cum. When I did, he crawled up and wanted me to give him head, so I did while my hubby went down on me giving me another orgasm. A few minutes later, Carl climbed between my legs and pushed his cock against my pussy. It was a bit larger than my husbands, but not a lot, and felt wonderful as he entered me. For the next hour or so, they both fucked me twice and I found it was the most incredible sex I’d ever had!

After it was over, Carl left and we went to sleep. The next morning my husband questioned me about it and asked if I wanted to do it again? I guess I said yes too quickly because he instantly got upset and accused me of preferring Carl over him. No matter what I said, he wouldn’t believe me and called me a slut and whore! I went to my mothers for the day thinking he’d calm down but when I got home he was still upset. I reminded him of the badgering he did to convince me to do that and explained I chose Carl because I thought he’d say no to allowing his brother to fuck his wife! It didn’t matter and over the next several days we did nothing but fight. I eventually moved back home and we divorced.

Like I said WHAT AN ASSHOLE!

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 19, 2023 at 8:51 PM

You’re not wrong. You knew that could happen. Maybe next time stick to your wisdom and standards. He’s a childish idiot.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 19, 2023 at 10:00 PM

You always got to be careful when you fulfill a man's fantasies. My husband kept badgering me to cuckold him. We picked the guy together, a friend of his who was only in town a couple times a year. My husband watched as I made love to his friend. Evidently I got too into it. My husband said later I looked at his friend in a way that was too "familiar." That was his word. I told my husband I wasn't going to put up with his sulking. He wanted this. So I got into it more than I thought I would, that can happen. He hasn't brought up cuckolding again. Men need to undertand that reality is a LOT different from fantasy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 20, 2023 at 1:39 AM

My ex husband and I had an open relationship. One night my friend set me up with a friend of hers. What started out as a night with my friend, turned into a gang bang with four black men. My friend knew it would happen and, when I made sure my husband understood where my night was venturing, my husband told me he just wanted me to enjoy. Within months, I was fucking mostly black men and he could not look at me anymore. We divorced - but I make sure he remembers that I asked him first. Yes, he should have thought about what he wanted and what he would be comfortable about.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 20, 2023 at 6:18 AM

I met my current GF this way. Her husband always wanted her to swing or have a three some. We had met at the gym and she approached me. She was a dirty blond 5 foot tall hard body. Really good looking 40 year old. She said that her husband wanted to watch her have sex. Well she got to pick the guy so she picked me. We met at a bar then went back to her house. He thought he wanted to see her get fucked. We start with some kissing then the clothes come off. I’m not a 9 “ but I am a solid 7” and thick. Our sexual chemistry was very good and we both came at the same time. He thought it was over but it wasn’t we just kept going. Fast forward next morning he had fallen asleep and we spent the night fucking and I slept in his bed. He was not happy when I left the next morning. A day later she text me and we hooked up. A week later she moved out and moved in with me. He begs her to come back saying if she did she could still see me. She asked me what I wanted. I told her she is going to live here with me. He face timed her one night and she answered the phone while she was riding me and told him that she couldn’t talk because she was getting fucked. She calls herself my sex pet. She was never in to anal and now takes it like a porn star. We have posted videos on Xvids

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 20, 2023 at 9:07 AM

I have to commend the first three replies to this confession. Very cogently put.

But, Pissed off, I have to say you still had agency in all this, you were in control of the narrative, you could've said no at any time but instead you went ahead just because you made a decision and have to stick by it do or die? And hoping the other party would decline? And his brother no less? Come on. And you said you know couples who've gone through this with negative outcomes, so you knew what could happen. Look at what it cost you; a marriage just because you acquiesced. Unless that was you get out, you basically sabotaged your marriage because you didn't like your husband.

The rule of thumb for threesomes and gangbangs is generally BOTH parties need to be in 100% agreement, if there's one iota of doubt or uncertainty, then it's a no go, no matter much you feel guilted or pressured into doing it to please your partner.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 20, 2023 at 11:22 AM

Same old story, its been on here a jillion times. Man has fantasy about watching wife with another, wife says no, he pesters her into, then she enjoys it more than him and doesnt want to give it up. One couple I was with just sat there and watched her ride me. Divorced a few months later. Another couple he watched, pouted, then went outside while we had extended fuck sessions with her telling me she loved my cock in front of him. Be careful what you wish for…..

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