Was It Planned Behind My Back

I've been feeling confused over the situation so decided to share.
Me and my wife got into an argument recently over a comment I made to her friend one evening and it ended with a threesome so now I feel like I've been played.

We both know her friend has fancied me for a while and this was confirmed when she drunkenly confessed it to my wife but although she is good looking she has no real personality and can actually be quite frustratingly annoying and I can be quite blunt sometimes so when she came around one evening for drinks she started moaning about how guys just use her then leave. I didn't think and said something along the lines of her being like the speed of light and sound she looks good but it takes longer for them to hear her or something to that effect. She didn't get it at first and my wife flipped and it turned into a back and forth leading to her saying she knew if we weren't together I wouldn't think twice about dating her, I pointed out I probably would for a day but was trying to be nice about it so I didn't come across as an asshole.

Anyway my wife and me stopped when we saw her getting upset and we sat either side of her and both apologised and hugged her. My wife mouthed for me to give her a friendly kiss and as I did she lifted her head and kissed me full on and I'm pretty sure my wife gave her a signal to do it. Her friend moved onto my lap at speed and kept kissing me and my wife started kissing her neck as she lifted both of their dresses off and within minutes we were all having sex but my wife was making all about her friend. I questioned it after without sounding like I didn't enjoy because I did and 2 women as well what's not to like about that but I wanted more of my wife.
She hasn't really said anything about it other than they both thought it was amazing and would happily do it again.
So that's why I'm feeling confused and feel it was planned.
Would love to know if others think the same or if I'm missing something.

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# 67191 - by Gary / August 21, 2023

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by Anonymous on Aug 21, 2023 at 5:49 AM

Use it as long as you can. If they are both down DTF why not. Hell move her in. Sounds like you can probably do some dirty shit with the spare wife.

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by AdultOrphan on Aug 21, 2023 at 7:26 AM

I've always maintained if all parties are on board and 100% into it, go for it. I can see your point it being a bit of a set up. Maybe your wife was feeling sorry for her and was happy to share you.

But beware if you make this a regular thing, this could also ruin your relationship in the long run, feelings will shift focus and words said in the wrong context could spell doom
All the best, Gary

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by logan2020 on Aug 21, 2023 at 8:34 AM

I find that women are far more likely to plan out scenarios like this than we would ever imagine.

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by Anonymous on Aug 21, 2023 at 10:30 AM

This goes back to that old saying, "If she's wearing matching underwear, it wasn't you who decided to have sex that night."

Women are much more devious and better actors than men. Yes, it was planned out by the two of them. Consider yourself lucky that your wife is all in on this. There has been more than one fool who took the bait and ended up in hot water for looking like he enjoyed himself too much.

As long as your wife and her sidekick are vocally onboard with continuing, dip your wick in both as often as you can, provided your wife is there and urging you on. By the way, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER fuck the friend without your wife there. One on one with the friend is the quick path to divorce, poverty, and TV dinners.

I don't know if you wrapped up during that first encounter, but insist on it going forward unless your wife verifies that the friend is on reliable birth control. An extra kid in the wild is also the short path to the divorce and family courts.

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by Anonymous on Aug 21, 2023 at 10:51 AM

IMO, it really doesn't sound like your wife planed this incident was in advance, although she very well may have fantasized about something like this happening and decided that night to use the opportunity to take it from fantasy to reality. Either way, you admittedly enjoyed the experience, so stop focusing on whether it was planned or not, and simply decide if you want this new aspect of your relationship to continue or not. If you don't, just tell your wife you don't, and want your marriage to continue as a more conventional, two-person relationship. If you do, then simply enjoy yourself.

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by Anonymous on Aug 21, 2023 at 2:03 PM

Duuude ... every guy out there would love to have this "problem".
Stop looking at it as if you've been played.
Of course you were.

You're missing the point here.
If this benefitted your wife, if she got off on it, go for it.

Your wife said "they both thought it was amazing and would happily do it again."
So talk to her.
Tell her you enjoyed it too.
Obviously she got off on it.
Then tell her if she wants you to do it again, you will, anytime and as often as she wants.
Tell her you want to explore any new ideas she may have in mind.

by Anonymous on Aug 22, 2023 at 1:49 PM

Either you are bragging “ohh this is such a bad problemmm” lol or you are overthinking this. Just enjoy it. Who the hell cares how it got there!?!?! If I could only have problems like that!!!!

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by Seagull57 on Aug 23, 2023 at 1:18 PM

So, your wife set up a three-way with her attractive friend, behind your back? Where is the problem here? This is a dilemma I'm sure most of us would love to have!
There is some sound advise given here. If everyone is enjoying it, why worry? You do have to be smart, however. Be sure that the girlfriend understands that this is all for fun! You don't need a second wife. One is plenty! Make sure that she is solid with her birth control. There is nothing like a baby to ruin the fun and possibly your marriage. Never sneak around and fuck her behind your wife's back. If you're caught your wife will be pissed. Never move her in to your house! Again, one wife is enough.
If you play this right, you can get some amazing sex out of the two of them; before she finds a man of her own! Keep us posted!
Seagull

by Anonymous on Aug 28, 2023 at 3:28 PM

That can ruin your marriage. Your wife can use that as a fact that can help her find another dude to fuck because it is "fair". You have already been with another woman while married, then why can't she too.

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