Wifes Ex Husband Was So Abbusive She Can't Cum Without Violence

My wife and I have been married almost a year now. She was married to her ex husband for a long time. They were high school sweet hearts and had been together since she was 15. It was such a sick relationship and she was just addicted to him no matter how bad he treated her.

When she was 19 the boyfriend let several of his friends run a train on her. She said for an entire weekend they did weed and treated her like a "fuck dolll", her words not mine. Sounds like the relationship had highs and lows like that for years. He would make her suck some dealers dick for him to get some weed. One time he even left her at the dealers house for a few hours and he did all sorts of crazy shit to her.

I think the worst of it came a couple years ago in her late 30s and she had been separated from him for a year. When he finally found her he "r-word" her in a parking lot. The crazy thing is she never even called the police.

Anyways, now we are married and seeing a marriage sex therapist. My wife has been through so much shit that unless I'm violent towards he she can't cum. We are working on safe ways to give her some thrill without things getting dangerous.