Getting My Husband To Go Bi

One of my greatest fantasies is to watch my husband Ken have sex with another man, with my husband in the role of the bottom or the submissive. I've told him this a few times, but he always insists he's completely heterosexual, and has no desire to be with another man sexually in that way or any other. Nevertheless, we have roleplayed that scenario, both during one-on-one sex with each other, and even online with another man during text chats. Every time we've done that, Ken seems to get hugely turned on and the sessions wind up with him fucking me like crazy, so I sometimes doubt his total commitment to heterosexuality.

He's not a prude by any means, We've had sex with other MF couples, both in swapping situations and at swingers' clubs, but during them he always judiciously keeps his distance from the other man.

Now I'm looking for a way to somehow move him past bisexual fantasy to bisexual reality. If anybody has any realistic suggestions as to how to do that, Please let me know.

Lanae

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 23, 2023 at 8:07 AM

He has to want it. I was more than happy to make my wife’s fantasy come true. She seen how she could dominate me making me her sissy husband. It started one night we were 69ing me on top she playfully put her vibratory on my back door hole. I pushed back on it told her to fuck me. I blew a big load all over her tits. Anyway we had a bunch of mmf 3 ways over the years.

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AdultOrphan

by AdultOrphan on Aug 23, 2023 at 8:10 AM

I'd be careful about pushing this onto him. Yes, he may have allowed you to ram a sex toy up his anus in roleplay but you're his wife doing that, not another man, he loves and trusts you completely. Roleplaying with the other man online simply stimulated him into having sex with you, it doesn't mean he wants to fuck the man.

If he relents and goes through with it, he's doing it to please you but may resent you down the line if you have an argument.

Please be careful. All the best Lanae

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 23, 2023 at 10:11 AM

This is Lanae. I want to thanks to both my initial commenters and your positive responses. Even though your advice was drastically different, you've both given me a lot of food for thought.

To Anonymous commenter #1, I don't think I want him to become submissive to me, but at most only to the other man, and only sexually. To AdultOrphan, I say I'd never want to "push" him into anything. I'd want to ease him into relaxing his views towards doing something like this, and him freely agreeing to participate in it. At first it might be only to please me, but my hope is that he will come to find he actually enjoys the experience, and then we can continue to move forward and enjoy it together. Something inside me that I'm having a hard time ignoring keeps telling me that he will, if he'd only give it a chance.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 23, 2023 at 10:18 AM

I would like join you I’m 61 bi curious , I don’t think I will ever do anything but if I were sharing a woman and things go a little bi with her encouragement I’d be receptive to rubbing our cock together handjobs and blowjob giving and receiving

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 23, 2023 at 7:05 PM

You need to set the example. Ask him if he would do a threesome with another woman. He'll probably be more receptive. After he has seen how much you enjoy eating pussy and he's enjoyed fucking you both a few times, you can ask him to reciprocate with an mmf threesome.

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