I'm a 35 yr. old hetero-male with a spanking fetish. I like it both ways. I like to take a woman over my knee and spank her bare bottom, and I love to have a woman take me over her knee, pull my pants down and whack my bare behind until it's red and sore. I know some other people out there have this same fetish, so I'm wondering, does this come from being spanked as a child? In my case, my parents were pretty strict disciplinarians, and they used spanking as a form of punishment into my early teens. Every single time, whoever was doing it, and it was both parents at various times, they always pulled my pants and underwear down as a prelude to the spanking itself. It was always done bare bottom, even as a young teenager. Now, as an adult, more than 20 years since the last time, the whole "ritual" really excites me. I know my parents had no intention of creating a sexual fetish, and they'd probably be horrified if they realized it, but I really think that the whole practice: the act of being held down, having my backside exposed, and being paddled in that position, did nothing but create an association in my mind that humiliation and some mild pain were sexually exciting. I'm not sure how, because at the time there was absolutely nothing sexual about it at all. I dreaded it, and it didn't actually happen more than a handful of times, but I seriously doubt that I would have developed a spanking fetish at all if it hadn't been done to me. Anyone else with this fetish? And if so, were you spanked as a child too?
