Tonight is the big night. Both tested and clean, have been together for 3 months & on the pill long enough to be safe.

Until now I've always insisted on condoms. I've never had a guy cum in me before. Will it feel different? And just how "messy" is it?

When I search around the net, it sounds kinda gross. Is it that bad or is that just guys writing porn fantasy? When you look at how much is actually in the condom it doesn't seem like enough to be that bad.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 4, 2007 at 9:34 AM

It can be very messy actually but it is not that bad. Just clean up right away and expect some that may leak out for a while.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 4, 2007 at 10:02 AM

You can't be safe from STDs, and three months isn't long enough. Use protection until you're sure he's clean and he's the one.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 4, 2007 at 6:03 PM

The real messy part comes 9 months later, and lasts for 18 years.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 9, 2007 at 9:35 PM

If you think it ends after 18 years you have no clue.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 9, 2007 at 9:37 PM

Dude; the poster said, "Both tested and clean." That means they have no STD's.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 9, 2007 at 9:38 PM

Will it feel different?

You bet it will. Condom sex won't ever interest you again.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 10, 2007 at 9:30 AM

Yes, it does feel different and what kind of morons do we have here? The girl said she was on the pill for 3 months and tested for stds. Make sure you keep taking your pill and just to let you know even though it may be too late: Some std's take a while to register in tests. AIDS and Hepitis is just to name a couple (6 months for antibodies to show). So, even if your test came out clear there is still a very small possiblity that you could be infected. Also, make sure that you KNOW that the person you are with is committed! It is just as important as the initial testing. Have fun

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 10, 2007 at 9:48 AM

STDs take time to get into your system and become testable. In the meantime, you can still spread the bacteria or virus.

The original poster can do whatever they like. The fact remains that getting tested 'clean' if it was right after having sex with someone doesn't mean anything, dude.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 11, 2007 at 2:54 AM

There's certainly no chance that the guy LIED. No, none at all.

Wait until you guys know each other better.

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