Swapping Turning Into Something Like Poly

My husband and I are mid thirties, white, met in high school and we went to the same local college together. We both grew up in sheltered religious families, but when we developed trust between each other, we started sharing fantasies. We discovered we had secret cross racial attraction or what ever you want to call it. He was attracted to black women and I was attracted to black men. Maybe it was because we grew up in a tiny, all white town and it was like forbidden fruit, I don't know.

It was just fantasy for years, then when we moved to a larger city we took the plunge and made it a reality. We found a black couple on the net who also didn't have experience to speak of, but we agreed to meet. I'll call them Sean and Jasmine to make things easier to put down. Turned out we didn't live far from each other at all, and we ended up being friends. We clicked really well on a personal level as well as a physical level. We do a lot of non-sexual get togethers and cookouts together. We've been seeing each other for a year and a half. They have two kids and we have two, and they've all become friends.

Of course, the kids know nothing about the sexual aspect. We're all straight, but when we meet for sex, we meet in one big room with seperate king size beds. It's fun, because we can keep the lights low and have music on real low. I'm in bed with Sean and hubby's in bed with Jasmine. We make love for awhile, talk to each other and to our partners across to the bed, discuss all kinds of things. Sometimes we smoke weed, sometimes we'll have wine or snacks. We're all easy going and we get along great. I love my husband above all, but I admit I've developed some feelings for Sean, as he has for Jasmine. We've all talked about this quite a bit.

We were able to take our family vacations together this summer and it was wonderful. We've been spending a lot of time at one another's houses, and we've even toyed with the idea of moving in together. It would be very feasible financially for all of us. We'd have to explain things to the kids, in an appropriate way of course. But my parents, and my husband's parents too, well, swinging or poly would make them faint, and swinging with a black couple would give them a stroke. It's probably not going to happen for all kinds of reasons, but we're all enjoying this now,