I'm a 36 yo married woman. I've fallen in love with this gorgeous guy. He's tall, dark and handsome; he's also very intelligent, funny, kind-hearted, sweet and really really sexy. I fantasise about kissing him and making love with him at least once a day.

Recently I've started to realize he is flattered by my attention and does have some attraction to me, although I know he doesn't feel the same way.

The problem is that he's 13, and I've had feelings for him for ages, probably years. As he gets older and more mature, physically and mentally, I just fall for him even harder, so I don't know how to stop feeling this way.

I love him so much it hurts. It's not getting any easier.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 21, 2007 at 6:59 PM

OMG!!!!!!! how can you be in love with a 13 year old!!!!! he could be your son!!! that is really really sick. you're a freak! go get some counseling because you seriously need it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2007 at 6:35 AM

Go play with kids your own age. Didn't your mother ever tell you that? Maybe his mother knows that saying? You might ask her.

Stop hanging around him and spend time with other adults. You'll meet someone nice (and legal) and hopefully forget all about tihs kid. At least think about the lovely jail time you'll be doing if you so much as lay a glove on him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2007 at 5:05 PM

This is not love, it sounds more like a sickness. Really, you say you are married? How old are you? Either way what you claim is a little creepy to put in mildly.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 22, 2007 at 5:34 PM

I think you better go take a very cold and long shower, before your name hits the front page of the local paper.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 26, 2007 at 9:45 PM

Yeah, I know she's a bit messed up; 36 Y.O. married woman falling for a boy, but what harm is there in it really?
I don't understand this business of prosecuting and imprisoning middle aged women who seduce teenaged boys.
This was EVERY boy's and young man's fantasy when I was growing up.
There was even a movie about called Summer of 42.

It was a sensitive portrayal of a brief affair between a new war widow and a teenager just coming into manhood.
There was a T.V. movie in the 70s or 80s with Kate Jackson as a high school teacher who eventually goes off with a male student of hers.

Why the change of attitude?
It's not as though a guy can be 'ruined' by being impregnated or something?
I don't say it's a good thing, but does it really require police, courts, and prisons?
Jesus, what's happened to us?!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 27, 2007 at 7:28 PM

It is wrong because by being innappropriate an emotionally immature young person (whether male or female)you are corrupting their morals and harming them for further healthy relationships. I realize that children lose their virginity at a very young age. It is far worse when adults take advantage of an impressionable young teen. I wish I waited myself, and now that I am a more mature person I do not know what the rush was back then.
And at 13, this child has so much growth to achive. I find it shocking the number of pedifile women coming out of the wood work these days. They should be prosecuted the same as men. I am sure people would feel differently if it were their son who got seduced by "Mrs. Robinson"!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 31, 2007 at 5:28 PM

You are a Sex Offender! Stop the thoughts before you make them a feeling and then a behavior. Remove yourself from the situation, and seek therapy from specific type of therapist, make sure they deal with Cognitive Behavior therapy. I beg you as a person who works with sexual predators, you can stop this from happening.Don't fall into denial, as you will continue to manipulate scenarios that end up with this young man being the center of this. It is against the law!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 1, 2007 at 5:09 PM

I still don't get it.

You say he's immature.
Granted, but why is it better for a teenaged boy to lose his virginity to a teenaged girl instead of a middle aged woman?

I know we've placed our children in a Catch-22 situation by feeding them things which make them sexually mature at early ages and then telling them to wait until they are mature and established adults to mate some IO years later.
So I don't think our children can be faulted for having sex when their bodies are ready for it - regardless of how mature their minds are.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 3, 2007 at 4:13 AM

Okay thanks for your replies.

1. I titled this "I know this is really really wrong" so there's no point going "OMG this is really wrong". I know, ok?

2. I said I was in love with this guy. You don't molest or manipulate someone when you are in love with them. I would never hurt him or touch him in any way he didn't enjoy or welcome.

3. I am NOT a sex offender. The idea that I can't control myself around him is ridiculous - it's like saying all heterosexual men are rapists and can't be trusted.

4. I won't go to prison just for laying a hand on him. I already hug and kiss him (not on lips); he sits on my lap and holds my hand if he feels like it. This is in front of other people with parents' permission.

5. Thank you to the person who was supportive; it really means a lot to me.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 14, 2007 at 4:16 AM

First thing is that this is not a guy girlfriend, He is a child......You will remember this and hopefully have a change of heart.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 29, 2008 at 8:04 PM

Hey people. I dated an underage girl 10 years ago and ending up marrying her and having a family.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 5, 2008 at 8:17 PM

But you though it was OK to fuck a 12 year old?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Sep 9, 2008 at 4:19 PM

Well, let me start off by saying that yes, society deems it as a social and moral wrong. But, at the same time, if you two love EACH OTHER, and it doesn't hurt anyone, who the hell cares how old he is? I'll admit, it is more than a bit disturbing, but at least you aren't seducing or raping him. Just wait a few years, if you really love him, then nothing is wrong with having feelings, as long as you act on them when he's legal. Good Luck on that though, I hope you have enough self control to deal with it without touching or saying anything inappropriate to him.

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