How I Improved My Skills

When I in my very early 20s I had had a few boyfriends and got the impression my hand jobs and blow jobs weren’t the best. Newly single I asked a male friend for some advice. He said it was hard to give any, but he could send me links of videos that he thought were “good” blow jobs. I watched them but it was hard to see how I was doing things differently. I went back to my friend and he asked if guys I’d been with gave any feedback, and I said they didn’t. He wanted to know why I thought I wasn’t doing it well and I told him they seemed to struggle to cum from oral and never from a hand job. He said I needed a boyfriend that was willing to give me feedback about what they like.

There was an awkward moment between us, knowing a possible solution but not wanting to be the one to suggest it. I was the one to finally address the elephant in the room; “If it wouldn’t be too weird, maybe you could?” “No, it wouldn’t be weird for me, I don’t mind if you don’t”

Our first lesson had him with his trousers and boxers down, lying on the bed. He was already hard, and I was surprised he was so keen given his size, but I was grateful for the help. I ham-fistedly took a hold of his shaft and started to jerk him off. He immediately gave me advice on how firm I was holding it, how quickly I was moving and even to ensure my hand movements encompassed the head. These tips in mind and with his continued instruction I knew it was working as I could feel him close to orgasm. My instinct was to increase the tempo but he told he to keep it steady instead, not too fast, and eventually I’d given my first successful hand job as spunk erupted from his cock.

It felt good and I was keen to repeat the process, which he was happy to do, and after a few more goes over a few weeks my skills had improved massively and I was consistently able to get him off. I considered myself a graduate now, but he asked about blow jobs. I said the thing I’ve learned the most is learning to read him as I make changes so I could probably apply the same thing to blow jobs. He said I was willing to practice on him if I wanted. I was thinking it was too intimate; sure I’d been giving him hand jobs but they’re not that intimate, you’re just grabbing some guy’s cock, but putting it in your mouth? And the cum? Does he expect to cum in my mouth? For me to swallow?

I decided to give it a try though, doing my best to alter my technique by myself and while I had the pressure and pace good, he advised me on going deeper, with longer stokes with my mouth. After a few minor adjustments I knew I had him under my control, rather than fighting hard to get a guy to cum I could feel he was probably fighting to stop from cumming. Thoughts of what to do when he came went out the window, he finally lost the battle and cum spurted into my mouth which I found myself just swallowing down by instinct.

He agreed it was a success, but now I was addicted to the power, having him writhe under me, alternating between sucking and teasing (which he showed me how to do by licking him with my tongue), when he was close to the end begging for him to cum, giving him the ultimate pleasure and the ultimate ending as I not only take it in my mouth but swallow everything down. It started as an exercise for me to improve my skills but without either of us acknowledging, it went beyond that to me just enjoying giving oral and him obviously enjoying receiving it.