Straight Female / 38
I Have Cheated A Lot
I’m a 38 year old married white female. I have been with my husband since we were both 19 and in college. I love my husband and we still have sex once a week all these years later. However I have cheated on him many times during the multiple phases of our relationship. He has no clue and most people don’t know about how often I have done it. A few of my friends know certain instances when I have but not the extent.
Anyway I thought when we got married I would be better behaved and I was for awhile but I go through periods when I crave sex with other men so I probably have some sort of sex addiction that I need to work out.
I’m just listing out each instance that I can remember when I cheated. I count anything from handjob on as cheating and I’m listing it out so I can see for myself the extent. If anyone wants to hear details about a particular story post in the comments and I’ll get back to you. I broke down our relationship into 3 phases. Dating, engaged and. Married and then documented the times and I cheated during each phase. Here goes
Dating (2005-2011) ages 19-25
1 handjob to guy I went to high school with in his parents basement while watching a movie. He fingered me
2 took showerwith an older man mid 40s at the gym I worked at as a receptionist after closing. Handjob and fingering
3 skinny dipping with friends. Two guys joined us. Handjob and fingering
4 bfs roommate sophomore year of college. Two separate occasions have him head while my boyfriend was passed out drunk. Second time he gave me oral
5 Dominican Republic vacation with my family. Younger brothers cute friend came along and so did my best friend.
Last night there my brother was asleep and friend and I went down to beach with brothers friend. We took turns giving him head on the beach.
6 senior year of college I was at the gym on a weekend. Small college so most everyone went home including my boyfriend. Just me and a black guy I had never seen before. Was hitting on me pretty hard and really likes my ass. Went back to my dorm with him and did everything oral both ways and sex multiple times.
Engaged 2011-2012 ( ages 25-26)
7 I’m a nurse and older doctor I worked with was hitting on me a lot. Should rubs etc. boring night shift we had sex in his office. Only the one time. He left a few weeks later
8 first bachelorette party with coworkers. Black stripper have head too and pretty much everyone else did too
9 second bachelorette party with bridesmaids and friends. Me and my maid of honor went back to these guys house after bars closed. Two military guys. Had sex with both of them multiple times
Married (2012-present) ages 26-38
10 new job at different hospital. Had to stay the night at hotel close by due to snow storm. Me and my coworker got drunk with a doctor. Had a three some in hotel room First threesome for me and first same sex encounter as well. Friend and I ate each other out
11 friends bachelorett party at beach. Grinded with a guy most of the night and then had sex in parking lot in his car
12 went from 2014-2019 without cheating. 2019 I got pregnant and super super horny. Our mailman was always flirty with me. Black guy again. Ended up having sex with him once or twice a week for most of the pregnancy. Always a quickie.
13 very recent this year. Bridesmaid in friends wedding and sucked off the best man an hour before the wedding.
14 most recent in July. Husband and I went to New Orleans for his work conference. Having a drink at the bar in the afternoon and a young guy hit on me. Good looking buff guy. Offered to show me around the city and then went back to his room and had sex before my husband came back.
Anyway I thought when we got married I would be better behaved and I was for awhile but I go through periods when I crave sex with other men so I probably have some sort of sex addiction that I need to work out.
I’m just listing out each instance that I can remember when I cheated. I count anything from handjob on as cheating and I’m listing it out so I can see for myself the extent. If anyone wants to hear details about a particular story post in the comments and I’ll get back to you. I broke down our relationship into 3 phases. Dating, engaged and. Married and then documented the times and I cheated during each phase. Here goes
Dating (2005-2011) ages 19-25
1 handjob to guy I went to high school with in his parents basement while watching a movie. He fingered me
2 took showerwith an older man mid 40s at the gym I worked at as a receptionist after closing. Handjob and fingering
3 skinny dipping with friends. Two guys joined us. Handjob and fingering
4 bfs roommate sophomore year of college. Two separate occasions have him head while my boyfriend was passed out drunk. Second time he gave me oral
5 Dominican Republic vacation with my family. Younger brothers cute friend came along and so did my best friend.
Last night there my brother was asleep and friend and I went down to beach with brothers friend. We took turns giving him head on the beach.
6 senior year of college I was at the gym on a weekend. Small college so most everyone went home including my boyfriend. Just me and a black guy I had never seen before. Was hitting on me pretty hard and really likes my ass. Went back to my dorm with him and did everything oral both ways and sex multiple times.
Engaged 2011-2012 ( ages 25-26)
7 I’m a nurse and older doctor I worked with was hitting on me a lot. Should rubs etc. boring night shift we had sex in his office. Only the one time. He left a few weeks later
8 first bachelorette party with coworkers. Black stripper have head too and pretty much everyone else did too
9 second bachelorette party with bridesmaids and friends. Me and my maid of honor went back to these guys house after bars closed. Two military guys. Had sex with both of them multiple times
Married (2012-present) ages 26-38
10 new job at different hospital. Had to stay the night at hotel close by due to snow storm. Me and my coworker got drunk with a doctor. Had a three some in hotel room First threesome for me and first same sex encounter as well. Friend and I ate each other out
11 friends bachelorett party at beach. Grinded with a guy most of the night and then had sex in parking lot in his car
12 went from 2014-2019 without cheating. 2019 I got pregnant and super super horny. Our mailman was always flirty with me. Black guy again. Ended up having sex with him once or twice a week for most of the pregnancy. Always a quickie.
13 very recent this year. Bridesmaid in friends wedding and sucked off the best man an hour before the wedding.
14 most recent in July. Husband and I went to New Orleans for his work conference. Having a drink at the bar in the afternoon and a young guy hit on me. Good looking buff guy. Offered to show me around the city and then went back to his room and had sex before my husband came back.
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