umm you cant rape the willing
How could you be sure it was your husband?
He might have forgotten all about it and a real burglar or rapist break into your house and you think it's fun while he's deadly serious.
i have like the same thing in my house only when i fight he really gets into it and i can't get him to just give it to me... damn!
OK. Listen I've been raped....for real..and it's terrifying.
I wouldn't want to do it for fun.
I was pulled out of the bleachers at a football game by four guys and carried to a locker room full of guys. Had my hands tied and was raped by about 5 guys while about 15 guys watched.. Not a pleasant experience.
I was also raped when I was 15 years old. I have been married about 2 years now and sometimes do have rougher sex and even rape like sex with my husband now. It has nothing to do with what happened to me when I was 15. If I tell my husband to slow down he does. The horrific thing that happened to me, I will never forget and it was the most terrifying thing that has ever happened to me. I lived with shame, and guilt and it took me a long time to get over that. The worst of it was the fear I carried for a long time, and I carried it by myself... He was a "aquaintance" and knew my friends and where I lived. I told only a few very close friends about this many years later, mainly because I didn't want to admit that I was a victim or be categorized as one. I can handle the whole sceneio with the man I married and trust not to hurt me though, I couldn't ever picture doing it with anyone else.
this is replier 6407 and yeah i was raped almost 2 years ago and i went through the whole court thing and the shame and being affraid, i had to tell my boyfriend and i told jon(b4 we got together, he was the first person i told ) and i still enjoy what me and jon do together it has absolutely no flashbacks or trauma. i only do it because i tust him and i know if i was serious it would not be happening... sorry if i made you feel bad it was not my intention. jon knows what i went through and was there for me when my fiance wasn't. and he knows not to scare me or hurt me it is all in passion not in lust and anger.
No it did not scare me at all. I was replying to the person who also said they were raped. I am not saying that they shouldn't feel how they do... but now that it has been almost 15 years I can have rougher sex myself and enjoy it...I cant see myself having a night of hard sex with a stranger though...I trust my husband and that is the only reason why I allow it and enjoy it. I too, do not get flashbacks but if I see or think I see that person I get sick and panic.
same here i was at the park with my 3 stepsons when the guy's wife showed up and his kids came up to me and wanted me to go play with them and their dad is in jail because of what he did to me and the wife just about yelled at me that I ruined HIS life... some people just don't get it. i did nothing and he did it to me.
Vidoes of any of these?
@8 I would have been furious. That's terrible. I personally use the term rape and deep down inside I know that I would be terrified if some stranger invaded me. For that reason I try to suppress the fantasy bc I don't feel its the right energy to bring into my life. Rough sex, yes. Rape, no.
