Did She Loose Her Virginity

So, I'm dating this girl who claims to be a virgin, but I'm not so sure this counts. She dated her high school bf for 4 years and said they never had sex. She said for the longest time that she used to just ride him but never ever went in.

I didn't understand what she meant so one day when things were hot and heavy she showed me. Neither of us was wearing pants, and I laid back on the bed. She took my dick and laid it flat on my stomach and then sat on it. She was dripping wet and proceeded to slide her pussy up and down on my dick with my dick in between the lips of her pussy.

She actually orgamsed doing this and so did I. My cum was all over my chest and she got some tissues and actually cleaned it up for me afterwards.

I thought this was fine and considered her a virgin after understanding what she had been doing all those years with her bf. However, she did mention that it kinda slid in a few times, but it was just the tip and it really hurt. That nothing ever really fully went in.

Anyways, what do you guys think? Does this count as loosing her virginity? It's a big deal to her, but honestly I could care less if she was or wasn't a virgin.