I was just lying in bed with my guy and I was feeling him and he got all hard, so I asked him to have sex with me. And he said no. This happens a lot in our household, but when he does it, it just pisses me off; I mean I have sex with him when I don't really feel like it. But when I say no, it is a big fight. I guess he thinks it is just my duty to fuck him when he says, but I never get it when I want it. Only when he does, and I am getting tired of it... He isn't the only guy that is interested in me, and I know I could just go out and get laid but the whole point is that I am in love with him and I am not the kind of girl that cheats. I just want to have a healthy sex life as well as a healthy relationship. Other than this little problem we do have a healthy one. I guess I should probably take into mind: age diff and kids and how much sleep he gets but I don't really think any of that is the problem. He just doesn't want me to ask to have sex with him. WHY??????