I'm 32, female, & attractive (or so I am told), and have been in a few long-term relationships. But I mostly enjoy random sex. Before you all jump on it & tell me my body parts are going to rot, I'm always careful and have never been pregnant or had a disease.

I travel a bit for work, and most of these hook-ups are out of town. I'm game for any nice attractive guy, but if I have a choice I go for the married guys. There are fewer "strings," they seem more eager, and they are (mostly) as concerned as me about being safe.

I figure that whatever we do is between me & the guy, I've never felt bad if they are married. If he is cheating, that is between him & wifey, not him & me. It's not like I ever forced anyone or tricked anyone, they have all been quite willing.

Most of my friends agree with me. I figure that if it wasn't me, these guys would be doing the next willing female. And at least I know I'm careful and that I'm not going to fall for them & ruin their marriage. I've only ever been with a couple of them more than once.

But a couple of my so called friends say I'm a slut & a home-wrecker. I don't get it. What do you think?