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Wife Never Want To Have Sex

Women just want your opinion
Been married for 12 yrs
With 3 beautiful kids
I believe where happily married
Just the basic arguments

My wife will never make move for sex
And every time I do she's always tired I do under stand that
But all the time

When we do have sex just the regular position me on top
No 4 play nothing
And I don't enjoy it because she's not it to it
I can't be spontaneous like hug her
Kiss her it always bothers her
We never have sex during the day
It's always at night and it's no more than twice a month
She says that she is just not affectionate person
And I am very affectionate

Idk what to do
I'm I overreacting
I would like some feed back
Ty

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# 68193 - by West / October 20, 2023
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 8:25 AM

I would say that you have 3 choices:

1. Brush your teeth and shower more often

2. Get divorced and find someone who is more interested in sex

3. Get used to it. She's not going to change. Consider having an affair or getting relief from a pro like a massage parlor or an escort.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 8:25 AM

Time you found someone outside your marriage to enjoy sex with. But make sure the person knows it's a sexual relationship only.
I say this because I was in a similar situation and began having sex with a colleague. Even though she knew I was married, she wanted everything after a time.
Luckily she was promoted which meant she had to move to another office out of town. Even so she tried to make things difficult for me when I told her, it's just sex.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 8:33 AM

She's fucking someone else. You need to divorce her and move on.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 10:00 AM

She either doesn’t love you and is only in the marriage for convenience; or she’s having an affair.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 1:50 PM

You're not over-reacting.
Not at all.
Don't waste any more time.
She doesn't give two shits about you.
She's not interested because she's f*cking someone else.
Regularly.
Get away from her and out of the marriage.
There's plenty of pussy out there.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 20, 2023 at 4:14 PM

You're still a relatively young man, so IMO, you have two options:

1. Get yourself you there and start meeting other women who can and will meet your sexual needs.

OR

2. Divorce her, and the see Option 1.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Oct 27, 2023 at 7:55 PM

Are you making yourself worthy of her lust? Or do you think she should be dishing it out like a porn star based on your everyday behavior?

Maybe she's touched out from being a parent. Moms, we often have only so much capacity for touch when the kids are young.

Maybe she's bored with basic maintenance sex. Have you tried making it all about her and gotten into her fantasies and fed her desires?

If you're going to cheat like suggested above ... sigh... just get a divorce and save the grief of wrecking things.

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Free_Lover

by Free_Lover on Dec 27, 2023 at 3:47 PM

My gal was 21 when we got together. Fucked like rabbits for years. Best sex I ever had, as she was always in the mood, full of lust. After a few years, she started shutting down.

We've been together for 13½ years now. The past 5-6 years have consisted of practically NO sex. She doesn't want me to eat her out. She doesn't want me to kiss her. She often doesn't want to be touched! I've been as understanding as a man can be, but I have a HIGH sex drive and end up jerking off way too much.

I still love my gal dearly, but I have been seriously considering looking elsewhere for sexual satisfaction. I know lots of women who would be interested, but the fucked up thing is that I only want HER.

Yet, the man who gets NO sex is called a "cheater" if they have sex with other women.

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