I am completely confussed? Ok so you held out for 22 years and then decieded to sleep with some guy you werent even attracted to, right? He said you were tight and you replied with, you are too small, right? Now you wanna know if you should sleep with him again, even though both experiences with sex were horrible? Okay, I may have it all straight now. First off, all though some people will fall for someone that they are not that attracted too, I think you have to like something about them. Secondly, you waited a long time to lose your virginity which usually means that it is something important to you...so it's too late for that but if it were that important, you would have waited a bit longer. Third, usually if your vagina is said to be too tight, the penis trying to enter it is too big. If it were small, it would go right in! I understand that you were a virgin or whatever but the vagina is elastic...it stretches enough for a baby to fit through it. Lastly, please do not sleep with him again, reguardless of the whole "using" thing...you guys obviously do not mesh!