It's 'perfect' For Us But It's Not For Everyone

Coming to terms with my gay person has not been easy. I don't have an overwhelming need for sex. I decided to get married to a man in spite of my gay feelings. Why? It isn't sex, I can be passive and let my husband do the heavy lifting. I wanted something more, children and a home.

I did not lead my husband astray. I told him I had these lesbian feelings. He asked me to be his wife, have children, and run the house for him. I got my children, a home, and a standard of living.

The girl in the equation I met at work, we are both nurses. My husband is a doctor, so it's everyone in the medical field. We are both 'femme' and 'cute'. Attracted to the girl in the mirror. It makes it easier on my husband, his nightmare was Randi Weingarten. My nightmare too.

My girlfriend has zero inclinations about sharing sexually with a male. She accepts him as the man in the relationship, she knows and respects him from working with him in the hospital.

Our situation works because he supports us, including financially, and doesn't need us in bed romantically. It's Him, Me, Her. I'm the ham in the sandwich.