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Faked It

i faked an orgasm with my boyfriend the other day instead of asking him to stop. i just wasn’t enjoying myself and i felt bad asking him to stop. i know my boyfriend and if i had asked him to stop, he would have. for whatever reason though, i figured faking it was a better option. i’m the only person he’s ever fucked so i know he’s insecure with that kind of stuff which is why i feel bad about lying to him. i don’t think i’ll ever tell him that but i hated not telling anyone

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# 68810 - by Lea / November 28, 2023
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2023 at 7:11 AM

Don't fake orgasms.
I'm a 70 yr. old man, I can tell you it is one of the worst things you can do to your partner.
And in the long run to yourself.

Guys are usually attentive, enthusiastic, and most genuinely want to please a woman.
But young guys are basically clueless as to the female body itself.
Even more than girls, guys are not told shit about sex growing up, except a lot of conflicting signals, what we're not supposed to do, what's expected of us, we're still supposed to make all the first moves, first phone call or text, ask you out, etc. etc.

IOW, all the usual, and all the time we're terrified because we don't really know what we're doing.
Most guys do not know a girl's erogenous zones, her G-spot, clitoral stimulation, toys, anal, vaginal vs clitoral orgasms, let alone ATM, DVP, DAP, etc.
Most of the time you have to show us.
And that's ok. We learn quick.
Just remember, we can't read minds.

The number of ways in which women can enjoy sex are far greater than men.
Also, the female orgasm tends to be a whole-body, limb tingling, toe-curling, nail-clawed experience.
Where as the male orgasm is almost always a local genital experience.

That's why it's funny when Leslie Neilsen tells Patricia Pressley in 'Naked Gun' that
"I faked all those orgasms"
Because guys can't fake orgasms.

Each woman is different.
Each man is different.
Each cock is different, feels different, looks different.
Each pussy is different, feels different, each clitoris is different, etc. etc.

You care enough about your BF to not want to hurt his feelings. or you wouldn't be doing this.
But faking an orgasm isn't the answer.

You have to communicate during sex.
Assume that he doesn't know, because he probably doesn't, and then show him exactly where on your body he needs to touch you, with what rapidity, how fast, how slow, and go from there.

If you need to tell him to stop, tell him.
You can try again as soon as you want.
If you hurt his feelings, oh well. He'll get over it.

And the quickest way for him to get over it is to just fuck him again right after you tell him to stop.
More pussy is always, ALWAYS the best medicine for anything, ANYTHING that ails a guy.





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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2023 at 7:47 AM

From your note, it sounds like he wants you to cum first before he finishes, which is generally a good thing. But if you're just not into it enough, just tell him for a change you want him to cum first. If you want to hurry him up tell him you want him to cum on your face. Once he's finished let him know you're fully satisfied. Usually after the guy cums he's done, but if he's still pushing for you to orgasm you can just insist that his orgasm was totally hot and you were pleasured.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2023 at 8:58 AM

I pretty much agree with the other replies but I have to say that guys, even young guys, WILL ABSOLUTELY KNOW, he may not tell you he knows you faked it but trust me, if you've been together for a bit, he knows.
Be honest, tell him. He probably won't say anything but he will internalize it and feel like he's just not doing it for you. I'm 51 and can tell you he needs to know it's not him, it just wasn't working for YOU at the moment.. As 'manly man' as guys are, really pretty sensitive to how we please our ladies. If you don't talk about it and let him know it was really your mental state, he's going to start feeling like he doesn't do it for you and likely withdraw a bit.
In shorter version, if you love him, tell him, talk about it.
Good luck

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Nov 28, 2023 at 2:25 PM

This is all good genuine advice your receiving so act on it.
Sex gets better between two people over time as they learn one another's likes, bodies etc.
Talk with him, tell him what you need, ask him what he would like.
The simple act of communication about wants, needs, turn ons, likes, dislikes and all the rest is the best g*ft you can give each other
Also be vocal in bed, if it feels good, tell each other, moan, gasp, express yourself. As a partner a huge turn on is hearing your partner vocalising their pleasure from your actions!
Enjoy yourself, remember that if you start making love and finish fucking, you're doing it right!

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