Straight Male / 45
Understanding Wife Likes To Watch
I have a lovely wife who is very sexual, but with one problem: cum stings her mouth. She enjoys blowjobs but after the first few months of dating stopped letting me cum in her mouth as she noticed this getting worse. I love cumming from a blowjob, indeed it's my favorite place to orgasm, so that was a bit of a problem. But we came up with a solution with one condition: I can cum in someone else's mouth as long as she gets to watch.
Not surprisingly, it's been hard to find a female partner who is into that, especially if she's just being used as a receptacle. But I'm just slightly bisexual enough to let men service me, and grindr has been a godsend for this. I prefer men who are younger, or either ultra thin or a tad chubby--for some reason average builds don't do it for me, or men who are particularly masculine (beards, athletic, etc.) That doesn't mean they can typically pass as at all feminine, just that their masculinity isn't extreme. I have one or two who service me at home every few weeks, but we often find new people while traveling. Most are surprised at the idea at first, and a few turned us down, and many nights there's no one available, but now and then in a new city or even sometimes in a rural area I find a man willing to come to our hotel room or airbnb and blow me in front of my wife. I always sit back in a chair or couch, the man kneeling in front of me, and I unzip to get sucked off while she sits next to me and watches. Occasionally a bisexual man has asked to touch her, but she's not interested in that. If it's a gay man with no risk of being interested in that, she's sometimes turned on enough to masturbate while she watches. Of course she lets me fondle her while I'm getting blown, and sucking her tits usually brings me over the edge, allowing me to focus on the female body and set aside the homosexual aspect of the action.
A few times I have been genuinely turned on by the man himself, though often that's something I have to just tolerate while I enjoy the physical sensation itself, often by closing my eyes. But I have really enjoyed the skill of many of the men, who are more often able to deepthroat than women are, in my experience, and able to suck longer and more steadily. Of course, I've been quite open to transwomen, and love having them take their tops off while they suck me, but that's actually pretty rare, indeed I think just two out of 40 or more partners. I once got blown this way by a transman, who was very skilled, but physically didn't attract me any more than the average gay man. For me, it's very much the presentation of a person's gender that matters, and not what they had between their legs (which I almost never see), or what they were born with. And clothing doesn't affect this much at all; cross-dressers don't attract me more if the underlying body is masculine, while at least one late-teenage man wearing very traditional male clothing but with a hairless chest and breasts larger than some women's was quite exciting for me.
I would love to find a woman who was willing to give me regular blowjobs, or even just a one-off, but the one time we dated such a partner it didn't work out as she had other needs I couldn't meet. Not that I wasn't willing to try, but her pussy was so tight I couldn't fuck her comfortably, and I just had to give up after a while. But in the meantime I'm getting a fair amount of head to satisfy me, and my wife loves seeing me lose control in another man's mouth, especially a cute one who likes being watched.
Not surprisingly, it's been hard to find a female partner who is into that, especially if she's just being used as a receptacle. But I'm just slightly bisexual enough to let men service me, and grindr has been a godsend for this. I prefer men who are younger, or either ultra thin or a tad chubby--for some reason average builds don't do it for me, or men who are particularly masculine (beards, athletic, etc.) That doesn't mean they can typically pass as at all feminine, just that their masculinity isn't extreme. I have one or two who service me at home every few weeks, but we often find new people while traveling. Most are surprised at the idea at first, and a few turned us down, and many nights there's no one available, but now and then in a new city or even sometimes in a rural area I find a man willing to come to our hotel room or airbnb and blow me in front of my wife. I always sit back in a chair or couch, the man kneeling in front of me, and I unzip to get sucked off while she sits next to me and watches. Occasionally a bisexual man has asked to touch her, but she's not interested in that. If it's a gay man with no risk of being interested in that, she's sometimes turned on enough to masturbate while she watches. Of course she lets me fondle her while I'm getting blown, and sucking her tits usually brings me over the edge, allowing me to focus on the female body and set aside the homosexual aspect of the action.
A few times I have been genuinely turned on by the man himself, though often that's something I have to just tolerate while I enjoy the physical sensation itself, often by closing my eyes. But I have really enjoyed the skill of many of the men, who are more often able to deepthroat than women are, in my experience, and able to suck longer and more steadily. Of course, I've been quite open to transwomen, and love having them take their tops off while they suck me, but that's actually pretty rare, indeed I think just two out of 40 or more partners. I once got blown this way by a transman, who was very skilled, but physically didn't attract me any more than the average gay man. For me, it's very much the presentation of a person's gender that matters, and not what they had between their legs (which I almost never see), or what they were born with. And clothing doesn't affect this much at all; cross-dressers don't attract me more if the underlying body is masculine, while at least one late-teenage man wearing very traditional male clothing but with a hairless chest and breasts larger than some women's was quite exciting for me.
I would love to find a woman who was willing to give me regular blowjobs, or even just a one-off, but the one time we dated such a partner it didn't work out as she had other needs I couldn't meet. Not that I wasn't willing to try, but her pussy was so tight I couldn't fuck her comfortably, and I just had to give up after a while. But in the meantime I'm getting a fair amount of head to satisfy me, and my wife loves seeing me lose control in another man's mouth, especially a cute one who likes being watched.
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