You need to understand that since a guy does NOT have the same plumbing, unless he was once properly taught, he has no clue as to what your feeling and therefore has no clue as to what he's supposed to do to give you what you want. Unless that is; you tell him.
i know this but it was just the way he acted about me not even coming "YET!"
i agree, it is weird and it offsets the mood
i was never taught and have given many of orgasms
sweetheart, tell him the he should try to use 2 fingers at least and try to get as many in so it feels like a penis to you, and also he needs to find ur 'G' spot, which is way back and off to the left a li' bit, i have long fingers and it is easy for me, but if he plays with that you will go nuts and he wont need to talk, you will be so into it that you will be loving him. im being cocky, but hey i am really good at pleasuring girls and i know what they want...but do that and you'll love it