Bi-Sexual Female / 44
Later In Life Open To Sex
I was married immediately after college to a man chosen by my mother and grandmother. On my wedding night he didn't touch me. My husband never consummated the marriage, he had a series of girlfriends, or so I thought. Only later did I find out he was gay.
I wasn't disappointed. I was never a sex person, and not having sex was fine with me. I didn't even think how odd it was for him to be gay. We stayed married, he hid behind it. Then fifteen years later at the age of 37 a man from work did me in. It wasn't what I wanted, I certainly didn't expect it. He went for me without hesitation it's a wonder I was wet enough for him.
Now I knew what I had not known earlier. If my husband had his night outs so would I. First was the man at work, then a man I met on the internet, then I met a woman. She was older by five years, worked for the city. She called me out 'I bet you're a lesbian".
One thing then another, I was open to try it and there it was. Sex with a woman.
Today, I'm open to either. I like older men and younger women. I can lay back and take it, or I can get excited and go for it. It's all a matter of it's a man or a woman.
As for my husband he's still in the closet. He lives his life, I live mine. I'm just glad I learned what I had been missing. As to which one us better? Men or women? It's the person, not the sex or the gender. I love sex, period.
I wasn't disappointed. I was never a sex person, and not having sex was fine with me. I didn't even think how odd it was for him to be gay. We stayed married, he hid behind it. Then fifteen years later at the age of 37 a man from work did me in. It wasn't what I wanted, I certainly didn't expect it. He went for me without hesitation it's a wonder I was wet enough for him.
Now I knew what I had not known earlier. If my husband had his night outs so would I. First was the man at work, then a man I met on the internet, then I met a woman. She was older by five years, worked for the city. She called me out 'I bet you're a lesbian".
One thing then another, I was open to try it and there it was. Sex with a woman.
Today, I'm open to either. I like older men and younger women. I can lay back and take it, or I can get excited and go for it. It's all a matter of it's a man or a woman.
As for my husband he's still in the closet. He lives his life, I live mine. I'm just glad I learned what I had been missing. As to which one us better? Men or women? It's the person, not the sex or the gender. I love sex, period.
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