Lesbian Female / 31
Am I Crazy In Wanting Him To Consummate The Marriage?
I got married out of inertia. Not love, not need, not to please anyone. It just happened like that, one day he said let's go to the courthouse and I went with him, he filled out the marriage license and I added the pertinent detail like my SS number, and I signed it. We got an appointment for four that afternoon and at five I was married.
He and I don't live together. He doesn't have sex with me. He likes other things, like the boys who work valet. I knew he was gay, but after all these months he hasn't touched me once. I thought that was going to be ok, he had never touched me. But now? We are married, a man should touch is wife even if that's not what she wants.
I have my girlfriend. We have been together for a long time. It's a friends with benefits arrangement. When we need sex, with a capital NEED, we get together and work off our sexual frustrations. She's a stewardess and I am pretty sure she doesn't cheat on me and I don't cheat on her.
So, should I insist he touch me? We aren't 'married' if he doesn't consummate the marriage.
He and I don't live together. He doesn't have sex with me. He likes other things, like the boys who work valet. I knew he was gay, but after all these months he hasn't touched me once. I thought that was going to be ok, he had never touched me. But now? We are married, a man should touch is wife even if that's not what she wants.
I have my girlfriend. We have been together for a long time. It's a friends with benefits arrangement. When we need sex, with a capital NEED, we get together and work off our sexual frustrations. She's a stewardess and I am pretty sure she doesn't cheat on me and I don't cheat on her.
So, should I insist he touch me? We aren't 'married' if he doesn't consummate the marriage.
