Son Is Constantly Masturbating

My teenage son is always jerking off and I don’t know what to do about it. After dinner each night he goes in his room and doesn’t some out until after midnight. He’s usually in there for 5+ hours. Sometimes it’s til 2am in the morning. I’ve tried to ask him about what he’s doing in there and he tells me he’s “doing homework”. But he’s full of shit. I can literally hear his hand fapping on his groin every time he pumps.

Also about 2 weeks ago I woke up to get some water and his door was cracked open. His monitor faces the door so I could see his screen. He was watching all kinds of filthy shit.

I’ve looked this up and i’ve heard it’s called gooning. What should I do???

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Addicted2You

by Addicted2You on Feb 12, 2024 at 12:32 AM

Satisfy his curiosity and help him. Show him your tits while you stroke him. Let him know that mommy is there for anything he wants. Then come back and tells us what happened.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 12:38 AM

Nothing, be happy for him. It’s healthy!
If anything, make sure he’s aware you are ok with it, not even by explicitly telling him, but by not making a big deal of it if it’s ever up for conversation.
Again, masturbating is healthy, like sports.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 12:40 AM

Help him out. He needs sex how hard is it to work out. And your wondering if you can have sex with him. Well you can. I fucked both my adult boys and they have grown up into mature adults and guess what they still fuck there mum and I'm in my 60s. I done a deal with the first because I felt he was smoking too much herb. And nothing I was saying seemed to work but I asked him what if I was to take his mind away from his bong would he be interested. He was. In 2019 all I had was a pair of 36b and was size 16 once he started fucking me I took interest again and lost weight toned my self up. One night during a secret fucking his younger brother was stood by the bed wanking. I can not explain how hot it was to see his brother give his cock a few tugs and he told him to fuck mummy's mouth.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 1:44 AM

There are three possibilities,namely,first is he is normal and has a slightly greater interest in erotic behaviour.The more he wants,the better he feels,the better he feels the more he wants.
Second,some irritation in the UT which makes him want more often.You need to very carefully tease the reason out of him.Infection can result in itching and not always burning.He quenched the itch by walking. Third,
Doesn't he sleep? Is walking his sleeping tablet?
The third reply by a mom is fascinating.He doesn't have to keep flapping if you walk in completely nude and satisfy him.
First,rule out infection anywhere in his urinary tract.Who says,prostatitis strikes only the Middle aged or elderly?
Let us know once he starts fucking you with gusto.Don't talk to anyone else,unless a doc has to be brought in.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 3:10 AM

Google for porn addiction! It's like other addictions. Speak to him, support him.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 7:27 AM

Seriously, that doesn't sound anything like porn addiction. I have a friend who has a porn addiction and literally, porn and constant masturbation is least of his problems with that addiction!

You who say that masturbation is porn addiction can't even understand what addiction really is. Masturbating at home, in his own room tells nothing about addiction, because addiction is NEVER defined by amount of masturbation. It's defined by the harm it causes.

For example my friend couldn't keep his job because he had to sit examining a process and he couldn't concentrate and left to toilet and spent there lots of time just masturbating. He lost tons of money because of buying constantly toys and dolls and other shit he didn't even used! We told him to stop buying stuff and concentrate on few hours before getting back home, but he couldn't. And that's final definition for addiction. It's not compulsory masturbation to porn, but compulsory to harm him- or herself even when the addict knows it is extremely harmful! I'm glad he finally got treatment when he masturbated so much that he had skin problems with his dick and it got so bad that he needed to see doctor.

So. Are this young man harming his life? Doesn't sound like it. Do not try to make every young guy a porn addict just because they like to jerk off. It's much more harmful if his mom says he's an addict when in this case the the long masturbation sessions are more likely a symptom than a reason. For example, what if this kid doesn't have any friends? What if he doesn't have a good hobby where he feels welcomed? What if some girl have treated him badly or he's being bullied?

His mom saying he's full of shit and watching filthy shit, doesn't sound she's someone a son would like to even talk with. First person I would put to therapy is the mom.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 12:36 PM

Well, Wonderingmom, what do you think you should do?
You said you can hear his hand flapping every time it hits his groin.
Are you being honest with yourself?
Deep down, is the reason it bothers you really because it turns you on?
Maybe you listen because you love how it sounds?
Do you get wet knowing he's in there with his cock in hand?

Do you ever check to see what kind of porn he's watching?
If its mother-son porn, then you know he's thinking of you.
Does that turn you on?

If any of these questions are valid, you should stop wasting time and take charge.
You can easily solve this kid's needs and enjoy yourself in the process.

Most mothers that have posted here about having sex with their sons are overwhelmed about how good it is and how long he lasts and great is his stamina and how awesome his cum feels when he shoots in their pussy, etc etc
You should read some of their posts.
Please post more and give us updates.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 1:35 PM

Hopefully he's not spending all the time masturbating. If he is, that might be budding pornography addiction.

First of all, ask yourself if this really is budding addiction. It's normal for teenage boys to watch porn and masturbate. If it's not affecting social life or grades you probably don't need to worry.

Then ask yourself if it is budding porn addiction or internet addiction in general. Those two, I think, are related.

If he might have a problem. For one thing, don't degrade him. Don't shame him. Don't humiliate him. Don't say to him that he's full of shit or that what he watches is filthy. Shaming and punishments are the worst way of treating addictions, usually it's counterproductive. You may want to express worry, tell him that you don't judge him, and tell him (and most importantly, show him) that you love him and only want what's best for him. My mother took a severe approach to my brother's gaming addiction and it completely ruined their relationship. My brother life now centers around anger and resentment towards our mom, and it's affecting the whole family.

Then, you should consult professionals. Experts. People who actually know what they're talking about. Avoid internet forums with all sorts of crazy and subjective advise without scientific basis. Avoid non-professional advise from influencers. And above all, avoid advise from i****t-obsessed users unable to distinguish fantasy from reality (like those who dominate this "My family-forum).

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 12, 2024 at 5:57 PM

Well wondering mom when I was that age I played with myself I think every waking moment. And it was my very attractive and very hot aunt and my 2 girl cousins I was fantasying about. I was spending a few weeks at their house. At the time I was able to suck myself off and I was walked in on with my dick in my mouth and it was the most degrading thing and they told me not to worry about it because they wanted to see me suck and swallow my load. I loved being watched by them.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 13, 2024 at 8:45 AM

Mind your own business and stop obsessing about the kid jerking off....

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 13, 2024 at 9:36 AM

If I were you I would slip into his room naked and let him look at you while he jacks off. If he doesn’t try to cover up take it to the next step and jack him off then let him see how it feels to get his dick sucked by a hot mom.
Can you imagine how exciting it would be to duck off your horny son and look into his eyes as you swallow his load.
Maybe let him fuck you and let him cum in your ass. You and him could have such a nice private thing going and you could teach him how to enjoy sex and how to fuck his girlfriends have an open mind mom give the boy what he needs

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 13, 2024 at 12:30 PM

First this is not the place for real advice. Second, in this sex obsessed society of course he is bombarded with it. Its pretty normal for teen boys. If you are concerned you might tell him its a normal thing but anything can become addictive. But it sounds like just a normal horny teen. Now if during the Summer he spends all day jacking off, then you should be concerned.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 15, 2024 at 8:21 PM

You need to make him wear oven mitts 24 hiurs a day to prevent this shit

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 18, 2024 at 1:56 PM

This is a naughty thread that has me going. Especially the idea of helping him out. I am a mom that loves her son masturbating. I only wish he would do it more often when I am home. It is arousing and I only have countless fantasies of how I could help him, but I haven't the courage. I get close sometimes when super horny and I imagine my sons raw unprotected dick entering my vagina. Should he get upset, I claim sorry, I thought you were daddy.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 23, 2024 at 12:20 PM

Gooning is a new word for me. My son is very active with himself, I have never timed him or thought he was gooning. Mom wants to goon after clearly seeing he is erect before disappearing and creating the thump sound. But I allow him to enjoy himself. It gives me guilty pleasure to think the next time I see the outline of his semi-hard cock in undies, I might need to give it special attention. And I love the mentions of taking pleasure and stop trying to destroy these sexual urges that we both have. Just last week we were lying and hugging when I could feel him getting hard so I "accidently" touched him just enough to confirm his cock was swollen. I was thinking of removing his gym shorts but could not think of a good enough excuse. Instead my hand had a more aggressive accidental feel from base upward and over his swollen head but not before his dick jumped. I quickly moved my hands to his head and gave him a kiss that was wet and sexy just enough that he wouldn't know my intentions. I told him to get ready for bed as I left the room to regain control. I am loosing it and now much worse having read: "Most mothers that have posted here about having sex with their sons are overwhelmed about how good it is and how long he lasts and great is his stamina and how awesome his cum feels when he shoots in their pussy, etc etc." So while I am getting closer and braver with my son, I masturbate while imagining his raw, swollen, bumpy penis getting closer and closer to my wet dripping pussy until it accidently slides in. Where will it go from here is what I fear.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 24, 2024 at 10:56 AM

A commenter identified me as loving to hear my son flapping. It bothers me that I am turned on by knowing my son is masturbating. And I do get wet thinking of how he looks and acts with his cock in hand. I am just another mother wanting to feel my son shoot his warm cum inside my wet pussy time and time again until my sons seman if fully drained. I would love to solve my kid's needs. At least just a great blow job once till I suck and swallow him dry. Sometimes I think I should just ask, can I help you.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 2, 2024 at 9:24 PM

You should definitely help him out, not by speaking to him, but showing him how good sex feels, do your best. That's the only real way you'll help him out

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 17, 2024 at 10:52 AM

Enjoy it while you can. I know I find it sexy that my two sons constantly masturbate. Seeing them naked and watching them develope over the years is rewarding to a proud mom. I only wish I could control my taboo thoughts when I masturbate. And even worse is riding their dads hard cock and imagining you are riding your sons dick instead. I dont want to be rejected or I would have helped my sons ejaculate often instead of just watching and fantasizing what I might do.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 17, 2025 at 9:53 AM

Oh wow this dialog is not what I expected and only leaves me more frustrated and horny. I picked up on "this is not the place for real advice" so with that I tried to ignore comments but so triggered by "Most mothers that have posted here about having sex with their sons are overwhelmed about how good it is and how long he lasts and great is his stamina and how awesome his cum feels when he shoots in their pussy, etc etc." I even learned a new word "gooning" which is how I saw my son one time in particular. I only want what is best for him and know he would like the pleasure I could give him but for me I want sex with him all the more because it is forbidden along with all the other hot comments I read. My sons masturbation and my husbands lack of sexual interest has me feeling so sexually deprived and masturbating to get by but I cannot live like this forever. Now I go back and read the comments of gooning and thinking of the details I see when my son wears tight gym shorts. And now I am loosing it.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Feb 17, 2025 at 12:52 PM

Thinking about getting intimite with him does not necessarily mean you want it to happen and nothing wrong with getting off to nasty desires while feeling no guilt or shame. No one gets hurt. At the same time you need for your son to know it is totally normal to get an erection and explore it with pleasure. Talk to him about sex and maybe he will open and gvie a little dirty talk that makes you want to slip on a lacy sheer nighty next time. Get close and use touch paying attention to hand placement on his ass or just enough pressure as it slides over his hard cock to guage its strength and firmness. How does he react when your gstring lines show through your tights. Your are slowly building his confidence and sexual health while learning new things about yourself and desires. Put yourself in the moment and enjoy the edging as your breathing shallows and your vagina warms and gets wetter. It’s completely natural to want sex and you know your son is also feeling sexual tensions. Oral sex would be safe but you do not want to scare him. Put his needs first and ask permission to touch. You know his dick is hard so think long term and lean into your son for a lesson on kissing. He is so anxious that there is no longer a need to hold back. How far do you want to take the intimacy. Will you keep it oral or do you drive him to fuck you like he owns you. A hard fuck proving his stamina and leaving you exhausted but anxious for more. His o-face and moans linger in your brain for days and you are hornier than ever before.

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