Straight Female / 28
Married To Protect Me He Is Overly Possessive
The basic issue was my best friend marrying a black man. I was maid of honor. I was paired with the best man, black. The wedding pictures blonde blue eyed girl on the arm of a black man. Preemptively, that's the word he used. Preemptively marrying me and getting me pregnant to ensure no black man would do it. Possessively is a better word.
He is a good provider, certainly makes good money. I have had the good fortune to be a stay at home mother. I don't even have a problem with the other word, housewife. I get my allowance, I have my freedoms, I have friends. It's just once in a while when the behavior is obvious. Possessive.
So do I bitch or let it roll off my shoulder?
As to my friend, there are problems. Primarily with the women. It's not jealousy, it's why a black man chose a white woman when so many black women were available. Simply put, she is not accepted. But that's not my problem. My problem is an over possessive husband.
He is a good provider, certainly makes good money. I have had the good fortune to be a stay at home mother. I don't even have a problem with the other word, housewife. I get my allowance, I have my freedoms, I have friends. It's just once in a while when the behavior is obvious. Possessive.
So do I bitch or let it roll off my shoulder?
As to my friend, there are problems. Primarily with the women. It's not jealousy, it's why a black man chose a white woman when so many black women were available. Simply put, she is not accepted. But that's not my problem. My problem is an over possessive husband.
