Yes, I'd say you had a problem. But I should talk--when I get drunk (which is quite often these days), I tend to piss in my pants. Sometimes--like you--I'll wet the bed too if I should pass out.
Maybe we should have a drunks sleepover?
Your problem is only going to get worse unless you go to work on fixing it now and peeing yourself is the least of the problem. Try AA meetings, you can find them in the front of most phone books. As you get older that much booze takes its toll on both your brain and your body so at your present rate your future is not very pretty.
I've watched a friend sink over the yrs from excessive alcohol and she's now at the point of having what they call alcohol induced seizures and winds up in the hospital about once every 3 weeks dispite the medications they give her. Last yr a seizure resulted in her falling on her face and she lost 4 top front teeth. Not allowed to drive anymore, lost her job, and going blind in one eye; not to mention her liver failing. Like I said; not a pretty future for you unless you quit NOW.
Yes. Your problem is that you get drunk enough to pass out 3-4 times a week.