My Story

This is an interesting site. I decided to share my story such as it is. My name is Katherine but many know me as Reese. I chose Reese because growing up many people thought I looked just like Reese Witherspoon. Other than our physical similarities, we're both blond & petite, I never really saw it but I chose to go with her name anyway.

I decided I needed an alias because I fuck around on my husband. A lot. I decided to have sex with other men and wanted to ensure that he never found out. It's been six years since the first time. I have been very disciplined about it. I read up on affairs before I ever had one and found a lot of advise on line which made sense and I've been very careful to follow.

I don't have more than a couple glasses of wine at a time so that my mouth doesn't run off. A lot of people have fallen into that trap. I have a burner phone that I hide in plain sight with my old phones in a draw he has never shown interest in. I never so much as even flirt with any of our friends or acquaintances nor do I seek relationships at work. I am on birth control that he is unaware of. I am careful where I play and who I play with and they all think my name is Reese and that I am single. They also know early on we're just having sex. There's been very few men who I've slept with more than once other than when I'm on vacation or at a conference.

I've tend to meet one or two men a month since this started. I've slept with somewhere around a hundred and thirty to fifty guys. I have lived out many a fantasy. Threesomes with two guys, a guy and a girl most often a married couple. Had girl girl a few times in front of the girl's husbands. Been taken by a few men while their wives watched. Taught a young bride how to orally pleasure her new husband, on her new husband, while they were honeymooning in Aruba. I've enjoyed the attentions of men young and old, black and white and everything in between.

Why? Simple. My husband lost his erectile function due to illness and after a long and difficult time, he stopped trying. Stopped all intimacy of any kind. I need sex, I need to be touched, held, kissed. I couldn't spend my life celibate. Along the way, my husband made comments that if I stepped out once in a while, as long as he didn't hear about it, or embarrass him, he would never say anything no matter his suspicions. I thought at first that was nice of him but I'd never actually cheat. Of course I did. Started slow, just the once kind of thing on a work trip. Then again the next trip. Then when my husband was visiting family, I was just going to get it out of my system and had sex with four guys in a week. I didn't get it out of my system at all. Having sex with strangers was constantly on my mind.

Truly, I'd have had sex with double the guys I have if I could manage it but I'm committed to being careful. I love my life with my husband and my ide life which gets me by. Many would condemn me but I've learned, judge not.