Post Prostate Removal Operation

Guys, 9 months ago I had my prostate removed...I am a lucky one and my PSA score is now 0.02...so far so good.
Since my op I have not fucked my wife...no surprises there...
Last month at the tennis club I met a guy ...we shared some drinks...had a chat ...and discovered we were in the same boat.
He has turned my life around.
He confessed to enjoying being fucked by men, to kissing men and rimming and sucking men...things that don't happen at home with his wife. Apart from the kissing.
He invited me to join him for dinner with his lover. Fuck...
He was pretty damn hot...married but bi...fully intact.
Dinner, a few drinks and then a few more and we were in bed.
Two dysfunctional fuckers with a seriously hot guy.
Since then I have ventured out. I go to gay saunas and gyms during the day and have been fucked, kissed, rimmed and given head to countless men.
Of course I still love my wife and wish I could satisfy her, but not to be. We kiss, I eat her out occasionally and she uses a dildo to get off when we make out.
Not perfect guys, but there is still a lot of energy in my sex life.