Anal Play

My wife and I have been married over 30 years. For most of that time she had told me she thought anything to do with her butt was gross and disgusting. But she also knew that I thought otherwise. At times when we were drinking I would get hints that she was intrigued with some type of anal play.
Then one night about 5 years ago after being out at a bar and having too much to drink we came home and started playing around. She was on her back using her vibrator and I was sucking one of her nipples as she played with the other. I then started teasing her butt by wiggling my finger at her back door. It wasn’t to long before she said put it in. I was more than happy to. This led to several times that night her saying fuck my ass. I did several times all with my finger.
The next day she was having a huge gilt trip and said she didn’t want to ever do that again. But every time some alcohol was involved and I teased her butt as she used her wand she asked me to put it in.
This went on for a long time, asking for it then guilt afterwards. I then gave her an article I read from a woman who confessed to loving anal play regardless of taboos, religion or what other people thought. This was a game changer. My wife now felt free to enjoy what she wanted.
She is now comfortable asking for anal play. Although still a little shy about discussing it too much outside of our bedroom.
It’s a win win for both of us. She has incredible orgasms.and I can’t get enough of feeling them