How Do I Handle This?

Found out my HS son got on my PC and found all the porn pics and videos of me and my wife. Like, about 6 gigs worth going back years, and absolutely everything you can imagine to full completion. I checked his laptop while he was gone and he copied everything, and he'd even snuck some spy pic nudes of her that I knew nothing about.

I remember being his age and doing some of the same stuff, and I remember my own perspective about it. I also remember how devastating it would have been if I'd gotten caught.

He's already watched them MULTIPLE times, and it's only a fantasy, so the damage is done, but do I let him keep enjoying his mom and have that dirty secret, or do I blow it all up?

No, I'm not interested in "getting her drunk and letting him have her", so don't even bother with that fantasy BS. It's just an awkward situation that's a catch-22, and I don't really know what to do.

She would be mortified and devastated, so "ignorance is bliss" on that front, and he'll outgrow it eventually, but he's probably going to keep spying on her in the meantime.

So, what do I do?
And yes, I admit that I'm a little aroused by the perversion of it, but I want to do the right thing.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2024 at 2:03 PM

Start doing reverse searches on the pix to make sure he's not posting her and check histories and shut him down if he's making her a webslut. He will show his friends so be ready for that but let him enjoy her as long as nothing escapes. Every guy does it so I wouldn't stop him if he keeps it with in reason.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2024 at 2:58 PM

Father of 5 here. I would confront him and tell him you know he downloaded all the pics and videos and that he is to remove them immediately with no copies to be left behind. I think the shock of that will compel him to do so.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2024 at 3:12 PM

Let him keep her. She's just wank material an every guy does it at that age. Enjoy the turn on an keep your mouth shut.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 18, 2024 at 5:56 PM

A Dad here. Take a drive with him to the park or someplace you can talk. Tell him you know and tell him how much it would devistate his Mom if she found out. Hes objectived her and you need to make it personal. Not to memtion how it could hurt her if the pics got out. You need to watch him delete them and do a CCleaner free space multiple pass wipe on his PC to make sure he doesnt restore them. Make sure you are wiping free space only. Buy a hardware protected flash drive, copy the pics over to it and do the delete, free space wipe on yours too. And ask him if hes given any away. Theres plenty of mom type porn out there that he could use rather than potentially hurting his Mom. Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 19, 2024 at 4:28 AM

I agree with commenter #4! Nothing good will come from him possessing nude photos and sex tapes of his Mom! Tread lightly here. He's just a horny HS kid, we all were, who went looking for porn and found his mother! He does need to delete them and you should do the same! After a secure backup, of course! Be certain that none of the photos have left his possession and assure him that you're not upset in the slightest, about him watching porn. Just be smart about it!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 27, 2024 at 9:55 AM

As a mother of two good looking teenage boys (13 & 17) I find it arousing if I see my son has a hardon after seeing me nude. But I don't have an ego so I think it is just their teen hormones. And I doubt they have taken any nude pics of me. I confess the idea is hot enough that I am wet with naughty thoughts. I know they see their dad and I go at it sometimes. Would it be wrong if they saw me masturbate? I know they hear me, but surely they haven't watched. OP, you have twisted my mind.

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