Keep His Mistress Close, Under Your Roof, In Your Bed, Love Her Too

This is about his mistress. If your of the opinion that cheating is wrong regardless, you won't like what I'm about to tell you.

I found out about his mistress when she delivered her, and his, son. The issue? Recognizing the baby as his, and he came to me to get my permission to name the baby with his name. I went ballistic, I don't cuss, that day I called my husband, yes my HUSBAND, a bastard, a son of a bitch, sorry Maggie I was angry. Maggie is my mother in law. But, we were talking about a baby, innocent, born out of wedlock, about giving this baby his father's name. "How dare you deny your son his name" I shouted. Oops. Yes, the baby is innocent, his mistress too.

What angered me so much is him having another wife right under my nose. Making love to her, making love to me. Supporting her, supporting me. Impregnating her, impregnating me. I asked, as controlled as I could be, did he love her? That's what it boils down to. If a man loves his mistress she is his other wife, if he doesn't she's a whore. Please tell me you love her? He does, he's loved her since I don't know when, loved her when he first made love to her. That was what was important to me.

We met, face to face, two women who share a husband, two women who share his offspring. She is six years younger, he met her when he hired her as an intern. I remember him talking about her, but not really. So many women have worked for him, why should I remember her? She was quiet, embarrassed, scared. I told her what I believe, 'do you love him?' Then love him with all your heart and be a good wife too.

We have worked out our schedules, caring for our children, being wives under one roof. I don't want him making love in another bed, we are his wives, make love to us side by side.