Coming Together And Staying Together

During a period of openmindness I participated in a lesbian social group. I paired off with a younger girl, Caroline. Over time she felt more and more self conscious. So was I, but I was too far into it to say anything. One night we were in a tight spoon, I loved holding her, and we talked about it. Would I be upset if she dated a guy? I said no, my feelings were hurt but I told her to find out. After she started dating guys, I went with her on double dates with friends of the guy she was dating. All along every time something got started she got permission before she participated. As far as my participation, I didn't need her permission.

As we approached graduation she told me that more than anything she wanted to have her Mrs. when she graduated. I asked her if her date had proposed. "No silly, I want to be your Mrs." That put a different spin on everything, I of course was elated. We eloped a couple of weeks before graduation.

Caroline took her new life seriously. Never asked to date a guy, that was all over. She dated but she never went all the way. As we settled in to living together, as a married couple, a friend snd coworker wanted a shot at me. At one point she was open to me seeing him that way. If you need it, and he's a nice guy, then go ahead. He became our sperm donor, using the natural method of delivery.

We have a very natural nature about us, being of one mind and body is a central part of our relationship. Milking our sperm donor, practicing, even when we aren't getting pregnant, is a big part of his participation. We don't sleep with him.