In Love With The Wrong Person

I have a biological sister who is 17 years older than I am. She had a daughter at that age, born about the same time I was. She quit school to marry the father who was a man in his 30s. They moved across the country when I was small. My parents kept in touch with them although we hardly ever saw them in person.


My niece and I both ended up being accepted to the same university last fall. We were attracted to each other as soon as we met on campus and started talking. We knew we were related of course, but it didn't seem like it because we had seen so little of each other during childhood.


We were soon having regular sex and spending as much time with each other as we could. We kept our relationship secret and met off campus as much as possible. It's not just physical. We love each other. Now that the semester is over and we're each back at our homes, we really miss each other. We talk on the phone or online everyday, and I'm planning to travel out to her area to see her in late June.


We knew this was wrong, but we really don't know what to do. We can't just forget each other. Neither one of us has ever felt as close to someone as we do to each other.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 30, 2024 at 12:34 PM

Ask yourself, who exactly told you what you did was wrong?!

What I read about your post, I couldn't find any wrong in anything you write!

Love her, get in touch with her, stick to her and enjoy her. Of course you can't get married and it wouldn't be wise to tell about your relationship to your family, but do not quit it just because others have told you it's somehow wrong.

You can love each other without all the official goals, like wedding and marriage.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on May 31, 2024 at 5:36 AM

I know it seems like your love will last forever, but you're both so very young. Chances are the passion will cool in time. Just ride it out.

If you're both intent on being together, however, please understand that you both could be giving up a lot. If you tell your families, how do you predict they'll react? You both might have to move where no one knows you. And what about children? The chance of a blood related uncle and niece giving birth to a child with genetic abnormalities is not overwhelmingly high, but it's not zero either. A lot to think about. Whatever you choose, I wish you both the best.

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