I Hate The Word 'dyke'

I have never been comfortable with the word 'dyke'. I have been labeled as dyke, and accused as dyke. I am not a predator, asking, inquiring, leading, first to kiss, a little handy on the boob front? Do those make me a 'dyke'?

Most people don't know, and would never guess that in my very private life I have a male aggressor, dominant, head of household husband. A left over from college innocence. But a husband in any event, with a mission for my kitty. 'Asshole', is my most oft said expression after he imposes his 'marital right'. He is most definitely not a dyke.

I'm not a dyke. I have a bit of an edge, usually a little older, a bit of rank, not held back at making the first move. A little push, some panty wetting, some vagina licking, some booby loving, some long wet kisses. I am not a dyke, I'm an assertive type. I want her to squeal, I won't her to wiggle, I want her eyes to glaze, to loose her breath. I do not ever want her to yell 'asshole' after making love to her.