Wife, Mother, Pregnant, All Woman Words. Go For It, Don't Hold Back

I got started in junior high and have been part of the lesbian out community both in high school and college, and became quite the little activist after I graduated. I got a job working for a law firm. The partner that hired me is bi. She has a husband, a professor, and she got married when she was nineteen because she was pregnant. She has three sons. I know she is bi, because she is lesbian with me.

She told me that going my way was going the wrong way. To separate sex from living a good life. Get married, she could present me to a man who could keep me real well and he wasn't opposed to a young wife having children. Marry him, have two or three kids, be nice and pleasant and let him do what he wants, and on the side I could be as naughty as I wanted to be, with her. Not to let sex get in the way, she wanted to see me safely married and taken care of. As an aside she promised that older men don't really mind if their wife had a close girlfriend, or if they are more than just 'friends'.

The man I married was 42 to my 23. He got me pregnant straight on, I had the baby nine and half months after getting married. I followed my mentor's suggestion to get my kids out of the way early, fast as fast can. I have three boys myself, all born before I turned 27. As she said my husband did not mind at all that I was so close to her nor did he ever ask if we were intimate. But one day we were caught out, I had my three kids with me, so this was a mother's day out, and she had her three (all older so they were running about). We were caught in a kiss by a coworker of mine. It spread through the firm before we got back to work that following Monday.

Before Monday my husband was told. He asked me if was true and said yes. How long had it being goin on? Before we got married, when she introduced us. If I wanted to be married I had to behave. But as punishment for that indiscretion he wanted me pregnant again. (By then I already knew that to him pregnant was a big turn on, especially having me pregnant). I asked him if I had to get pregnant every time I kissed her, because I would never stop being pregnant. Fine by him. Seriously, he didn't mind. Just like my mentor said. Older men don't mind at all if their wife has a girlfriend, one they approve of. Just don't get caught kissing in public.

But I was young and I went ahead with another pregnancy. I have four kids and the first one starts the first grade next fall. I have to confess that this whole getting pregnant and having kids has been fine by me. I love being pregnant, I love how I look, my favorite months are five to seven months. Eight and nine are a bit too big in the belly, especially after the first one. Don't ask me about breast feeding because that is the best zone to be in, I love breast feeding too. This whole mother thing has been the biggest surprise.

I'm glad my husband can keep me and my kids and not complain because I bought two gallons of milk, or that little 'thing' at the department store. I have a nice car, well a Suburban, and I live in a nice house on a corner lot with a big back yard. He is now old by young girl standards, but better a man who is a father figure than a kid with an attitude. My girlfriend, and by that I mean my bi girlfriend and mentor, and I have a very intimate relationship. She went ahead and had a fourth one, she is only 37 so it's not that she is that old. But definitely a late baby, her third was born when she was 28. She really did grow the mom boobs.

If anything about this experience, yes an older man doesn't mind if you have a girlfriend. An older man can provide. You can put him in the father figure if you like, and be the willing little nymph at night. Being pregnant is nice, much nicer than you think. Childbirth is a chore, but today's epidural takes care of any pain, you just push them out. Breast feeding brings you so close to your new baby, you can't imagine falling in love one more time. And if you have a girlfriend who has a father figure husband too, then you can be as close as you want to be with her. It's nice if he can keep her in the same standard that your husband keeps you. And don't get naughty in public. That's my advise.

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