This New Idea That Sharing Spouses Is The New Normal

It's complicated. For two years in college and two years following I had what I thought was a stable relationship. Lesbians, but pretty well centered. Then she meets a guy at work and he got to her and took her. At first she hid it from me. But it was too much of a hood thing and she spilled the beans. I broke it off with her, to me it was cheating. How she rationalized that she wasn't cheating because it wasn't another girl. And it wasn't emotional.

After a few months she reached out to me. Just meet him. I would like him if I gave him a chance. She ended by saying she had eloped with him. I said no, not interested. She came to see me, showed me her new tattoo. And somehow she agreed to meet him.

Before meeting him we fell into the old days. It was immediately regretful. But the damage was done and I couldn't work up any anger towards her. As we stand we we seeing each other and he is accepting it. I don't see him, but he is always in the shadows. She's should me pictures he's taken when we are most intimate.

She is open and frank about it. She wants me to surrender to him. That's where we stand now.