Some Friendly Advice

This will probably get Remove Its from the regular haters, but so be it...

Some advice for mostly married women, but it applies to men too.

I'm worth several million, debt free, house on golf course, very well paying position in company leadership, own a piece of a billion dollar a year company. I don't say that to brag, just to point out I've worked hard and provide unlimited for my wife. She doesn't work, heads to the gym every day, nice car, nails and hair done every week. Yes, she's a pampered princess. We're empty nesters, kids grown up.

Our sex life is pretty well non-existant. She considers me watching her get off with her toys as sex. Not all sex is good sex, and no sex is better than bad sex.

Wives, don't be fooled. If your husband is in a position of power, if he's a good listener, if he keeps in good shape, and he's a nice guy, some girl at work likely has her eye on him.

If you aren't servicing him sexually at home, you are making it challenging for him to be loyal to you.

I've had women throw themselves at me at work just from being friendly and listening to their problems., making it very clear they will do anything. Some have come in, shut my office door, and flashed me in their sexy bra, thong, and thigh high sets. Imagine how challenging it is to remain faithfull when a sexy 30 something comes in, and you aren't getting any at home and does that.

I never wanted to cheat. My family was torn apart by it and I swore I'd never do it. But I got more sex when I was single or from women at work than I ever have at home.

You might wonder why I don't leave and be with one of these hot women. It's because I love my kids and I don't want them to have a broken family like I did, just because of sex.

My point is, wives, keep your husbands happy in bed and most men will do anything for you. Be vocal during sex, dress sexy sometimes at home and going out. A man wants to be proud of you and show you off, don't be afraid to try new things in bed. Tell him what you want to satisfy you. Most men enjoy making their wives cum too.

Husbands, you dont get a free pass. Talk to your wife and find out what gets her off. Give her your attention, listen to her. Stay at home moms with kids still in the house work just as hard as you. Do stuff with her, take her out to eat, go places, compliment her when she puts in effort to stay in shape or dress up sexy for you.

Sex and intimacy is the glue that keeps couples together.

Most men are pretty simple. Keep a clean house, keep them fed, and keep them happy in bed and they will be loyal to you. If you do all that and they cheat, then you deserve better.

If you are wondering, I've done all that stuff. In my case, it hasn't mattered. Sometimes it doesn't... Thanks for reading. Hope your marriage is better than mine.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 29, 2024 at 10:52 AM

While some will probably down-vote your post, your advice is spot on. While I've never been financially successful in grand ways, I married young and had a decent career such that my wife could stay home (her desire) and raise the kids and pursue hobbies that she enjoyed. I'm not handsome but it was surprising how often women threw themselves at me, year after year. Hell, at one work conference I even had two ladies who worked together who suggested a 3-some! I resisted, but eventually after 20 years of a nearly dead bedroom, I said 'f*ck it' and had sex with a female co-worker. That lighted a fire in me.
I eventually divorced my wife when most of my kids had reached adult age, and while that divorce was painful and hard, I'm far happier.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 29, 2024 at 2:34 PM

After twenty years my wife moved me to the guest room. I told her then, she was the wife, she put out, but if she didn't keep her end of the bargain neither was I. She told me she didn't care.

I met this woman at work, pressed financially, in debt from school and living beyond her means. An arrangement, if she took care of my problem I would take care of hers. She got attached, girl attached. And the money.

Young, attractive, affectionate, eager to please. I took her home to my wife. It's not difficult, but I'm not taking a lover behind her back. I made her pay my young girl's student loans as a reminder.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Aug 30, 2024 at 4:22 AM

This post and comments are spot on. Power position or not, money or avg income or not it’s the same. Without a passion for each other there is nothing. That’s where I am, there is no effort on her side at all to make our relationship better. I openly tell her I need more from her not just sex (which is boring AF and she wonders why I don’t finish). Every situation is different, make the best of yours!

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