No One Likes A Bitch

When I was referred to as 'the bitch in the equation' I was insulted. As time went on and I responded as a 'bitch' my friend told me. No one likes a jerk, in your case a 'bitch'. People don't argue with you, they tune you out.

It was hard for me not being the 'bitch', I was working from behind, not included. The 'jerk' in the equation was the loud asshole. He wanted me on his side. My friend tended to be brutal, but always when she got me alone. "I like you, well I love you, but I don't like you when you're a bitch'.

More than anyone, she tamed my bitch behavior. When it comes out, it's under the surface waiting, she gives me 'the look' of disapproval.