Straight Female / 31
Getting The Unvarnished Talk, No Sugar Coating
My sister and I are less than a year apart. We shared the same bedroom until we left home.
When we were fifteen and fourteen our mother sat us down for the 'the talk'.
Face it, you are going to get fucked. It's not nice, but it is not unpleasant. It's all about whether you like the boy enough. You have to be prepared, he has to get you hot enough, to feel you up, to suck you tits. To finger you. Put your finger in your vagina and don't let him until you are wet enough. Some boys want you to suck their dick first. Use lots of saliva. Grab his dick in your hand, and use lots of saliva. The reason you suck his dick is to get him hard enough to fuck you. A limp dick doesn't work as well.
These are examples of condoms. Condoms are a line of defense, they are not a sexual aid. Sexual aids are for fun when you are alone. Don't get them confused. Condoms are for defense. You defend yourself from some other girls STDs. That's what you are defending yourself against. How do you think he got the STD? That means he fucking some other girl too.
On the defense side is birth control. You are both on birth control. But don't think for a moment that you cannot get pregnant. Plenty of girls on birth control get pregnant. Because they forget. If you are getting spermed, then you need birth control. Take it. The only reason he is fucking you is to get his sperm in you. Everything else is a convenient diversion. If he is fucking you, he is getting his sperm in you. USE YOUR BIRTH CONTROL. It's playing defense.
Last but not least. Be selective. Don't choose poorly. A dick in hand is not a dick you want. You have to set the limits and the dick you are willing to have shoot sperm into you. Pick carefully. Choose wisely. In the meantime there are sex aids, like these dildos. Use them.
We have a very open relationship with our mother. We found out from her that she forgot and got pregnant, twice. Lucky for her my father stuck around. She could easily have been a teen unwed mother.
When we were fifteen and fourteen our mother sat us down for the 'the talk'.
Face it, you are going to get fucked. It's not nice, but it is not unpleasant. It's all about whether you like the boy enough. You have to be prepared, he has to get you hot enough, to feel you up, to suck you tits. To finger you. Put your finger in your vagina and don't let him until you are wet enough. Some boys want you to suck their dick first. Use lots of saliva. Grab his dick in your hand, and use lots of saliva. The reason you suck his dick is to get him hard enough to fuck you. A limp dick doesn't work as well.
These are examples of condoms. Condoms are a line of defense, they are not a sexual aid. Sexual aids are for fun when you are alone. Don't get them confused. Condoms are for defense. You defend yourself from some other girls STDs. That's what you are defending yourself against. How do you think he got the STD? That means he fucking some other girl too.
On the defense side is birth control. You are both on birth control. But don't think for a moment that you cannot get pregnant. Plenty of girls on birth control get pregnant. Because they forget. If you are getting spermed, then you need birth control. Take it. The only reason he is fucking you is to get his sperm in you. Everything else is a convenient diversion. If he is fucking you, he is getting his sperm in you. USE YOUR BIRTH CONTROL. It's playing defense.
Last but not least. Be selective. Don't choose poorly. A dick in hand is not a dick you want. You have to set the limits and the dick you are willing to have shoot sperm into you. Pick carefully. Choose wisely. In the meantime there are sex aids, like these dildos. Use them.
We have a very open relationship with our mother. We found out from her that she forgot and got pregnant, twice. Lucky for her my father stuck around. She could easily have been a teen unwed mother.
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