Saving My Marriage

After twenty years married, two children, a successful business, my husband went off the reservation. I love him, I've given him my life, bore his children. At this juncture I either accept her as part of the equation, or give up everything, destroy our business. Not to mention destroy the relationship of my children and their father.

Logic tells me, suck it up, keep my mouth shut. My feelings bypass my brain and want to kick him. Maturity keeps me in my place, set the table, serve him breakfast. My best friend, also a woman, asked me if I've considered bringing her into our bed with us. No I had never considered that, but now I can't stop thinking of it. I lost my head about it and asked my husband. The immediate reaction was no, are you kidding. Now we talking with her about it. No, never, is now Let's do it.