I Figured Sex At A Bachelorette Party Was Normal

My wife and I have been married for 4 months. On her bachelorette party I know she got fucked, but I expected it. none of our other friends are married yet and for my bachelor party we went to a strip club one of the nights. I got a lap dance and sucked some titties, I would have had sex if I could have. Before we were married, we got drunk together one night and told each other about our bachelor and bachelorette parties. My now wife told me that over their 2 night trip, she had sex with 2 seperate guys, but they both used condoms. I told her about my strip club experience. We both kinda imagined that's how those parties went. When I told my friends about it recently, they were surprised I still married her after hearing what she did at her bachelorette party. Apparently that isnt the normal experience. I dont have any married friends, so I was kinda wondering if what we did was normal or not.