Okay, well let me start off by saying I'm a 15 year old female and I've been doing some stuff with this guy who's a little older than me and today I told him I want to fuck but he's nervous and said that he's always wanted to be with two girls...I've never been all the way with even a guy, much less a girl! I've actually always wanted to just try doing things with a girl but would feel weird with someone I know so I figured I would wait until college where everybody experiments, but I have the ability to now, with someone I don't know (he said he could find someone I don't know) but I don't know what I should do!! I really want to but I don't want anyone to know because they would think I'm a lesbian or something and I don't know what to do when we're together... Help me please!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 28, 2004 at 9:00 PM

If in doubt: -don't. At fifteen years old you are just too young to be preoccupied by sex, much less some brainless self-absorbed clod who obviously doesn't care anything about you. DAMN this rotten "culture" we live in.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 29, 2004 at 9:18 AM

Tell him to take a hike. Stay away from him, find a guy your own age. Enjoy life.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 29, 2004 at 2:07 PM

For that guy to have sex with you is ILLEGAL! no matter what kind of feeling you have for this man, he is ONLY taking advantage of your youth to satisfy himself. He does not care for you, if he did, he would wait until you matured a little more before taking that step, at least wait until you are of Legal Age (16-17 in most states). Please try to be more adult than he is, and wait to have sex.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Mar 31, 2004 at 5:33 PM

But a guy my own age doesn't want to do anything with me, and I can't find a single guy who likes me.. I'm wicked depressed..

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2004 at 7:31 AM

OKay, I just want to clarify something, I want to fuck him so bad, but he's worried about the consequences...so that's why I'm wondering what I should do, becuase this way I would get to be with him, just someone else will be in it too... and I'm also worried that he'll choose someone else that he actually likes, and I'll just be like a third wheel

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2004 at 9:12 AM

You are so stupid. He's only going to use you for sex and then dump you for whatever bitch comes along next. I hope he fucks you til it hurts and then walks away and leaves your broken ass on the sidewalk crying like the little retarded bitch that you are. Why not go all out and skip using a condom and get knocked up so the rest of us can support your ass on welfare, or get an std and spread it to everyone else you little whore! Use your fucking head and think about what you are doing, not your goddamn pussy!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 1, 2004 at 6:29 PM

How could he dump me? Im not fucking going out with him.. cant ANYONE on here answer a goddamn question?? oh my god! Anyway, I want to have some fucking fun... or wait! Why don't I just stay depressed and do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!! yeah! that sounds like so much fucking fun!! YES great idea!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 2, 2004 at 12:37 PM

do it w/him, just tell him you want to do it alone

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 2, 2004 at 8:25 PM

Do you really want your first time to be an uncomfortable situation of a three-some? You don't even know what to do with another girl and feel weird already and you haven't even done anything yet. When I was your age, people wanted their first time to be "special". Don't you want that or something close to? Instead of fucking some guy who probably don't respect you and just wants some pussy? Don't do anything you'll regret. If you do fuck him, just let it be the two of you...that way you won't be....as you put it..."a third wheel". Have sex first, then after you gain some experience, then bring in another girl - or even another guy. At least by then, you'll know what the fuck to do. Go with your instinct and do what you want and what you're comfortable with. And don't just have a 3-some because he wants you to.......do it because YOU want to!!!!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 2:38 AM

Why stop at just a threesome? Tell him you want a gang bang. At least 10 guys. Throw in a couple of girls. Get fucked evey way possible. If you're going to be a slut, do it right the first time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 9:02 AM

You forgot to add that they need to skip using condoms so they give her an std or get her pregnant.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 9:05 AM

If having sex with this guy is supposed to fix the fact that you are depressed, you need to see someone and get some type of help because having sex with some guy is not going to fix the problem you have. You need to see a shrink or someone who can help you with whatever problems you are having, because sex isn't going to make everything better.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 12:07 PM

I actually always thought my first time would be with someone I really care for or at least am going out with... but I really want to get it done with. Would it be a good idea to do this (with only the guy) if there is not a chance of me getting pregnant or STDs? I mean, I've learned when good times to do it and not to are from school and other people, and of course we would use a condom and make sure he didn't come inside me. Is it a good idea if I really want to? AND why the fuck are you calling me a slut?? If a guy asked this he would be a fucking *player* and it would be a good thing. I'm still a virgin in this sense and so I couldn't even be considered a slut. I've never cheated on a boyfriend before and am never going to.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 3:42 PM

tell him you want to be fucked by huge cocks. that way you'll remeber it for days, as you're trying to walk.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 5:22 PM

How old is, "a little older?"

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 5:23 PM

that makes no sense

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 5:23 PM

He's like a 1 1/2 or 2 years older

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 5:23 PM

Your remark about "everybody experiments" at college is false.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 6:14 PM

If he has sex with you, it is ILLEGAL! I hope you get caught and your "boyfriend" goes to prison where child molesters belong. The other prisoners LOVE child molesters!

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 3, 2004 at 6:48 PM

As much as you think you won't regret it now, you will after it's all done and over with and especially since you two don't have a relationship together. Many women think that sex means love but it really doesn't and when they try to start a romantic relationship with the guy, he doesn't want anything to do with her because to him it's just casual sex and nothing else. Please don't take this lightly and don't take your virginity lightly. Even if it was a guy in your position, people would still tell him to wait because at your age you are so young and so vulnerable. Please wait.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 5, 2004 at 1:16 PM

well most people experiement in college.. or at least the ones who have a life.. and I never said he was my boyfriend or anything like it at all.. I know we dont have a relationship together and I dont expect to have one. I did at first before we did anything but now i realize its not gonna happen and Im fine with thta

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Apr 22, 2004 at 5:08 PM

That may not be true; there are places where 15 is old enough for sex to be legal.

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