My Wife Is Odd

I will first admit I love sex, like maybe more than the average person but probably not as much as a sex addict. My wife however, has no drive for it. Me and her have had talks, as she has said to me a few times that she has zero interest in it, like initiating it and she never thinks about sex. She does say though she does get into it when we do it and she does enjoy it. She is also open to sex in general and will let me do whatever and in the moment enjoys giving blowjobs (swallowing included), vaginal or anal. I don’t complain about it much but I really wish she would initiate. Anyways it made me wonder like how she actually viewed sex, because it seemed like she only does it for me like it is a chore.

So a while ago I tested her out , we own a cabin in the woods with starlink and both got approved to work from home for a month from our jobs. It was good being away from the hustle bustle but legit whenever I brought up having sex we pretty much did , unless it was a bunch in a day that I wanted she might of asked me for the next day. However I didn’t bring up sex for a week (I still jacked off though) and she didn’t seem to care at all that we had no sex, like didn’t even cross her mind.

This brings us to this weekend so I brought up maybe a threesome with a good friend of mine and at first she was like I dunno but I convinced her. To avoid any unwanted pregnancies, well me and her plan on having kids eventually, sooner than later so she isn’t on the pill anymore sooo to avoid pregnancy my wife was okay with my friend using her ass. We didn’t do DP or anything but she sucked me off while he did his thing. She literally didn’t seem to care after. Late that night I asked if she had fun and she was like ya it was alright. Like again it felt like taking a cock up here ass while sucking me off was just another chore she did for me. No regret or no saying she loved it or anything on a spectrum of liking it or not liking it. She said it felt fine but didn’t really care that it was happening or when he finished but glad that I was happy she did it.

I just can’t fathom not caring about sex, I’ve had ex’s who demanded it I stick it in them , some preferred one home over the other but still they wanted it. My wife lets me do whatever sure and it’s great and I love her but I wish she was more passionate about it.