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How Can I?

I am a 30 year old woman who is a virgin, really shy and introvert.How can lose I my virginity until New Year's Eve? I can't bare any more to be so untouched by a man, so unloved and so unsure that I can't feel a man's body next to mine softly kissing me. I NEED TO LOSE MY VIRGINITY SOON,PLEASE HELP ME! :(

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# 75072 - by Sabrina / December 1, 2024
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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 1, 2024 at 1:40 PM

Get a dildo and loose it yourself

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 1, 2024 at 2:39 PM

There are men the world over who are dying for a sexual night of pleasure with you .
I don't know why you don't just explain to a man your desires and it will happen

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 1, 2024 at 5:38 PM

Faced with this same problem I took a weekend trip to New York, and via the internet contacted a man to service me. He came to my hotel room, I expected not to be blindfolded, I asked to lose both my anal snd vaginal virginities. The experience was somewhat clinical, but the effort was complete, including my request for no condoms and a complete ejaculation in me.

So, my advise, you cannot lose your virginity to a dildo, or your finger. You need a hard no nonsense cock in you. Find a man for hire who services women, not one that also services gay men.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 1, 2024 at 5:55 PM

This post had repeatedly occurred here.

Nobody waits for advice to lose virginity,unless you are bluffing or trying to solicit sex.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 2, 2024 at 7:55 AM

I would think it would be pretty simple. As one of the other posters said, you can hire a professional, but honestly, if I wasn't married, I'd invite you up to my house in the country for a week and would give you what you want. You want the soft, gentle, boyfriend experience? I can do that. You want a rough pounding? I can do that too. Any holes you want deflowered would be, and I'd make you wonderful food on top of it as I'm a decent cook. I've had a vasectomy, so we can go bareback if that is your pleasure.

Based on that, there must be other guys like me out there willing to show you a good time.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 2, 2024 at 12:13 PM

Anonymous no 6 it's not that simple for me to become more extrovert and express my feelings to a man.
If we were all alone the two of us in a house it would probably be super akward because I tend to be very quiet and shy whenever a guy I like appears in my life.
I used to date a guy who actually liked me but because of my behaviour I kinda rejected him even though I was in love with him we broke up.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 3, 2024 at 5:51 AM

Be honest are pushing over 200 ?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 3, 2024 at 11:27 AM

This is Anonymous #6. I can relate. I am a hard introvert. COVID was great for me because my wife couldn't drag me to unarbitrated social situations full of boring people.

Honestly, I would think that this could be worked around. If what you want is known and negotiated ahead of time, likely over an email or text type situation, then unless you say no or safeword out, then it can be understood that silence is consent.

BUT

Unless I'm misreading between the lines here, you don't just want to punch your V card. You want the relationship, the feels, to not be alone. Assuming that I'm right, I think you need to start the relationship virtually - because things are easier over a screen. Then, in the run up, you just need to be honest and forthright and say "hey, look, I don't want to be alone, but I'm also really not social. I like to [insert stuff you like to do here], and I'll appreciate and value the relationship with you and anything is on the table sexually [this is a huge selling point for guys, and the things which are off the table with my wife are a constant source of annoyance for me, but I digress]" or something like that.

My wife is a balance of introvert and extrovert. I realized long ago that, if anything happened to her, I would likely be alone, because everyone seems to want to go places and do things. That is exhausting. I want to stay home, read books, fix things, and cook. I tell my children that any day I need to leave the property is a bad day. Going grocery shopping once a week is enough social interaction for me. Apart from that, I live in the woods on 5 acres, I listen to books and podcasts, and I'm quite happy with the peace and tranquility.

Making the gross assumption that I have it right, my Christmas wish for you is that you find the type of relationship where you can sit together on a couch in front of a fire, covered with a blanket, each reading your respective books, enjoying the peace and quiet of each other's company... and then you'll get an urge so you'll lean over, fish his dick out, and swallow it.

Good luck.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 8, 2024 at 5:23 AM

Anonymous no6, this is a fairy tale what you have described in your last post, these things never happen in real life, even I were dating and we were all alone sitting together on a couch nothing would have happened, because nothing ever happens in my life.
How old are you btw?

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 9, 2024 at 6:12 AM

Fairy tale, or aspiration?

But, if you won't make the move, then he will have to know that he needs to. FWIW, my wife is similar - not an introvert, but also wants me to start things.

At first, I was coy about it, but after 18 years of marriage, I just reach down her shirt while she's reading. No seduction or pretense to it, just the comfortable familiarity of wanting to see her O face.

Your question about my age got me thinking and it occurs to me that the other thing to consider is that things *might* get a little easier as you get older. Younger men tend to need more validation and positive reinforcement than older men, otherwise they get insecure and try to push you in to convincing them that everything is okay. When I was young and foolish, I made similar mistakes with a sweet girl who was going through a rough time - yet I was insecure and made it all about me, leading to a break up.

The flip side with that is that, as with most things, it's a tradeoff. When you're no longer insecure, you also know what you want and are less willing to compromise. So, there's less of a "let's grow into this thing together" and more of a "I have this mostly completed jigsaw puzzle that is my life, it's just missing this piece. If you can adjust yourself to fit in that space, then we could both be happy. If you can't, then you know where the door is, because I'm not changing much any time soon.".

This may or may not work for you depending on how strong your submissive tendencies are (or even if you're a brat which needs to be tamed, which could be entertaining).

In answer to your question, I'm 44, and have been married 18 years.

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