Do You Use Protection?
I think the following might come off as pretty douchey, but my intention isn't to brag. I am a curious individual and I can't really get a straight answer from actual people IRL so I am posting on here since this community is geared around honesty with strangers. I want to provide context for my question:
I feel like life is short and I am really horny, so I'm pretty regularly pursuing sex. I have a pretty good job in IT, work life balance, etc. I don't go out much or drink, so sex is kind of my outlet or hobby. I will post on internet forums to join swingers as a third male, I will flirt with the local, college age barista, I go on Tinder, Bumble, etc. I always try to be relaxed, kind, not-to-pushy and a good communicator, but I am pretty clear about my intentions to have sex.
In the past four years of doing this I have had 25 sexual partners (after my previous partner, who I lost my virginity to). Sometimes it is a one off fling, sometimes I get a FWB. Sometimes it is a wife cheating on her husband. Sometimes it is a swinger couple who likes men to join. If I'm attracted to the female, I just go for it. I get rejected a ton and just do my best to move on. It is what it is.
My question is this: "How often do you (men, or women) actually use protection?"
For me, I had condoms and abstinence drilled into my head when I was a teenager but my experience has been the polar opposite. I have a breeding fetish, so I do everything I can to shoot my cum inside a woman's pussy. I don't really do anal and I like blowjobs, but I always want to cum deep inside when I finish.
I never coerce or force my partners, to be clear. I ALWAYS inform my partners if I'm having sex with someone else. I get tested at a local clinic every three months for STIs. My previous partner wanted kids, so I know that I'm fertile since we did the wole fertility testing stuff. All my partners know this and they just don't seem to care?
I met a swinger couple that insisted on condoms. Once we started fooling around though they asked me to go without and let me fill up the wife three times. The college barista I see once or twice a week lets me cum inside her as I please. She's only 21 and knows that I'm fucking other people. She "loves feeling it leak out later".
So, adult confessions, what is your experience with protection? Men? Women? Are you on birth control? Are you worried about the consequences?
Stats:
- Total Partners: 26 women
- Condoms Used: 3 of 26 women
- Just pull out: 1 of 26 women
- Cum Inside without condom: 17 of 26 women
- Cum inside without birth control: 5 of 26 women
- That's Juicy! 13
- Remove It! 2


