Do You Use Protection?

Hello everyone. My name is Aaron. I'm a pretty healthy, fit male. I just turned thirty. I've been taking care of my health pretty religiously the past few years and my sex drive is through the roof. I called off my engagement to a pretty toxic partner when I was 26 and I've been single ever since.

I think the following might come off as pretty douchey, but my intention isn't to brag. I am a curious individual and I can't really get a straight answer from actual people IRL so I am posting on here since this community is geared around honesty with strangers. I want to provide context for my question:

I feel like life is short and I am really horny, so I'm pretty regularly pursuing sex. I have a pretty good job in IT, work life balance, etc. I don't go out much or drink, so sex is kind of my outlet or hobby. I will post on internet forums to join swingers as a third male, I will flirt with the local, college age barista, I go on Tinder, Bumble, etc. I always try to be relaxed, kind, not-to-pushy and a good communicator, but I am pretty clear about my intentions to have sex.

In the past four years of doing this I have had 25 sexual partners (after my previous partner, who I lost my virginity to). Sometimes it is a one off fling, sometimes I get a FWB. Sometimes it is a wife cheating on her husband. Sometimes it is a swinger couple who likes men to join. If I'm attracted to the female, I just go for it. I get rejected a ton and just do my best to move on. It is what it is.

My question is this: "How often do you (men, or women) actually use protection?"

For me, I had condoms and abstinence drilled into my head when I was a teenager but my experience has been the polar opposite. I have a breeding fetish, so I do everything I can to shoot my cum inside a woman's pussy. I don't really do anal and I like blowjobs, but I always want to cum deep inside when I finish.

I never coerce or force my partners, to be clear. I ALWAYS inform my partners if I'm having sex with someone else. I get tested at a local clinic every three months for STIs. My previous partner wanted kids, so I know that I'm fertile since we did the wole fertility testing stuff. All my partners know this and they just don't seem to care?

I met a swinger couple that insisted on condoms. Once we started fooling around though they asked me to go without and let me fill up the wife three times. The college barista I see once or twice a week lets me cum inside her as I please. She's only 21 and knows that I'm fucking other people. She "loves feeling it leak out later".

So, adult confessions, what is your experience with protection? Men? Women? Are you on birth control? Are you worried about the consequences?

Stats:
- Total Partners: 26 women
- Condoms Used: 3 of 26 women
- Just pull out: 1 of 26 women
- Cum Inside without condom: 17 of 26 women
- Cum inside without birth control: 5 of 26 women

Comments

Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 10:49 AM

I grew up during the 60's and 70's. Women were usually on the pill and we didn't have the aids scare. I came inside every chick I was with before my wife.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 10:51 AM

probably fifty fifty for me. every woman who goes without a condom lets me go inside, but ive only been with around ten

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 12:11 PM

As a guy I can relate to not wanting to wear a condom. However I have seen many friends get completely ruined by women tricking them into pregnancy bc they want a baby and some guy to pay for it. I strongly suggest wearing a condom for that reason alone! Child support these days is insanely expensive and with DNA it’s easy to prove. The courts always side with women especially if you’re not married to the pregnant woman. I was also dumb when younger and messed around with known married women and that’s playing with fire! Best to stick with non married unless strictly approved by husband ie swingers. The excitement of using unprotected sex and married women can mess up not only your life but any kid that you might make.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 12:17 PM

Female perspective here (27 yo) I'm in the medical field and STDs terrify me so with new partners I would insist on a condom but if they got tested and showed me they were clean I didn't mind not using one while I was on birth control. I also have a breeding kink so it was my preference as well.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 1:04 PM

I always use protection because I didn’t wanna be a daddy. Plus if a woman let you fuck her how many other guys has she had sex with? The same goes for guys of course but like others have said if it’s someone new, I would definitely use protection if they were fucking other people and I wasn’t sure if they were 100%clean or not. And that’s not only for your protection, but also being considerate to the woman.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Dec 17, 2024 at 11:17 PM

I always start with one to calm their fears, but when they get into it enough, I pull it off and go bareback. I always try to convince them to let me bust inside when we're close. I want to give them children. What comes after is not my problem. I already did the hard work convincing them up to that point, sweet talking them, workingn out in the gym to get a nice physique - it's hard work. Now it's their turn - to raise the child. If she wants my help she's going to have to submit to me as I fuck other women.

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Anonymous

by Anonymous on Jan 1, 2025 at 12:42 AM

Bloody hell you're fool.

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